Mackenzie Click-Mickelson
Chugging along the path of life
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- Oct 23, 2015
And so was IAs I was saying, it's more than cost difference.
And so was IAs I was saying, it's more than cost difference.
Yup, I know it's hard to believe, but I was agreeing with you.And so was I
lol some days the world tilts on its axis I guessYup, I know it's hard to believe, but I was agreeing with you.
Like most things, this is an issue coming from multiple directions. Wages have largely kept pace with inflation with the exception of healthcare and college costs. If you are insulated from those two, you’re doing okay even at a median income.I’ve always wondered why until recent history, one person (the man) in the family could easily support the entire family on his wages alone. My grandfather worked in a factory and gave my mother and grandmother (and aunt and uncle) a great life. Vacations every year, fun activities etc. on one factory workers pay. Now oftentimes two worker families have trouble making ends meet. It’s a shame.
One thing that’s been mentioned a bit in this thread that I think is a large contributor to the problem, is how nasty the public has become. And, at times, dangerous. A 17 year old lifeguard was recently stabbed on duty in MA because he asked a group of young adults to stop partying or leave. There is already a lifeguard shortage.
When my DD was 14 and 15, she worked as a cashier and then service desk clerk at our grocery store. Not sure I would let my young teen work with the public in today’s environment.
Yup, I know it's hard to believe, but I was agreeing with you.
It’s crazy! Too many years of the customer is always right have not served us well either.My DD18 has worked in food service as her part time job until this spring, people were just so nasty! She now works in a garden center (register) and it isn't AS bad, but she still has nasty customers and most of them are older folks who act very entitled. She had a lady bang on the door a few minutes after closing and get angry that they wouldn't let her in to get "just one thing". It's not just grabbing the item, the computers, registers, etc. were all shut down for the day, no way to take payment. It was also the older folks ignoring the mask mandates when they were still required, she would politely ask if the customer needed one (they had them to hand out), but got cussed at more than once. I have had a few screwed up orders and had to wait in some long checkout lines due to under staffing, but I make a point to be pleasant and patient with the person who is serving me.
Like most things, this is an issue coming from multiple directions. Wages have largely kept pace with inflation with the exception of healthcare and college costs. If you are insulated from those two, you’re doing okay even at a median income.
On the spending side, expectations for a “middle class” life have shifted a lot. Houses have grown significantly, the gadgets inside cost us way more monthly, etc.
Its funny to think back because both my wife and I grew up in houses without air conditioning, 5 channels on the single TV, and sharing bedrooms with siblings. All of that would be unimaginable today for someone in the middle class… but it would be way cheaper.
People think you need to eat all organic, fresh, etc. to eat healthy and that’s just not true. Veggies are cheap, frozen veggies are cheap and convenient (I keep huge bags in my freezer) bags of rice are cheap, chicken is cheap. For what I spend on a round McD’s for my family (about $35 for 4 people) I can feed them for a week with those things. Part of the problem is that in some lower economic neighborhoods those things aren’t as readily available. And what Sam mentioned factors in too. I’m a stay at home mom so it’s easy for me to cook every night but for folks that are working 12-14 hour days not so much. Which brings us around to the original topic. People are discovering they don’t have to work 12-14 hour days and so they’ve decided not to.Actually I would flip that. It would be better for the health of our nation if it was less expensive to feed our families with healthy food. A lot of people eat fast food because it's cheap(er) than other options. We do complain about the costs of fast food creeping up there but a lot of foods and meal options that are marketed as healthy(ier) are cost prohibitive to a good amount of people, it causes people like it or not to seek out less expensive options which are often not healthy. So I would say instead of making unhealthy food more expensive make healthy(ier) food less expensive. You're still going to have people eat fast food but there would at least be more options available to people.
You're totally right about what foods we eat and the perception around it, I don't negate that at all and honestly we've not been given very good information in the food health industry to push us towards good ways of eating that don't require protein shakes for life or organic only (which organic is a misnomer anyways). Although even vegetables (and fruits) can get pricey at times (though I know that's not your point). We almost always buy green bell peppers for instance because red is like more than twice the cost (and this is Walmart) but red bell peppers do carry more nutritional value to them. Over the past week we've made for future meals (meaning they are in the freezer now) chicken primavera, sausage gumbo, chicken pesto tortellini, and chicken fajita stir fry with each of those making 2 meals each for 2 people but the groceries were cheap and not cheap. But it's overall cheaper than constantly ordering out or going to a restaurant and because we control the sodium content and fat content a bit more depending on things it can be healthier. We use canned chicken for some recipes (versus chicken breasts or tenders from Costco) but the lower sodium costs more than the lesser sodium and the lesser sodium costs more than normal.People think you need to eat all organic, fresh, etc. to eat healthy and that’s just not true. Veggies are cheap, frozen veggies are cheap and convenient (I keep huge bags in my freezer) bags of rice are cheap, chicken is cheap. For what I spend on a round McD’s for my family (about $35 for 4 people) I can feed them for a week with those things. Part of the problem is that in some lower economic neighborhoods those things aren’t as readily available. And what Sam mentioned factors in too. I’m a stay at home mom so it’s easy for me to cook every night but for folks that are working 12-14 hour days not so much. Which brings us around to the original topic. People are discovering they don’t have to work 12-14 hour days and so they’ve decided not to.
Nor the cleanup. Cleanup from fast food is easy. The cleanup is the worst part for me, which is why I cook 20 pork chops at a time and stick them in the freezer rather than cook every night.It's not just the cost of fast food that makes it attractive, but the time (or lack thereof) required. It's so much faster to run to fast food, get your order for your family and eat it. Of course, there will now be people who come on and say "it takes no time to make a burger at home". Get the hamburger, make the patties, cook the patties, put the dressing on the buns, put the patties on the buns, plate it, etc. And you haven't even gotten into fries yet.
This is what I have been saying about working from home. I was very lucky to be able to telework, our agency has never done anything like it before and through April of 2020 insisted it couldnt happen. Finally they sent all of us home and eventually called us back to get our desktops from the office. Now they are opening again and many of us dont want to go back, especially if we dont see clients or what we do can be done online. They are now starting to make a telework agreement with the union and I hope I never have to go back. Not because Im lazy and I dont work as hard at home as I do in the office, but because never in my life (and ive been working for almost 30 years now) have I ever had a sustainable work/life balance like I do now. Something was always dropped or I was running ragged.
I have a much more meaningful life now than I did before and I dont want to give this up.
At $4/lb. plus $1.99 for a package of 8 buns and $4 for 16 slices of Kraft cheese. You can make a quarter pound hamburger for $1.49. How much is a McDonalds Quarter Pounder with Cheese? Online is showing estimated $4.24 for Pennsylvania.Hard to cook a burger at home when your meat price is high, might as well go to McDonalds. A 5lb log of 80/20 beef at my closest Walmart right now is $4/lb or $19.98. In April it was $3/lb or $15.00 when we bought it then. Of course we know prices fluctuate but yeah. And yes when you buy meat at the store you can customize how much meat goes into it but a lot of people are just going to look at "It's 20$ to get this meat and just the meat, too pricey".
Again look at my last part of the comment you quoted......At $4/lb. plus $1.99 for a package of 8 buns and $4 for 16 slices of Kraft cheese. You can make a quarter pound hamburger for $1.49. How much is a McDonalds Quarter Pounder with Cheese? Online is showing estimated $4.24 for Pennsylvania.
Oh I'm going to get a lot of flack from this, but....I’ve always wondered why until recent history, one person (the man) in the family could easily support the entire family on his wages alone. My grandfather worked in a factory and gave my mother and grandmother (and aunt and uncle) a great life. Vacations every year, fun activities etc. on one factory workers pay. Now oftentimes two worker families have trouble making ends meet. It’s a shame.
I'm ashamed to know this ... but you should never order a Double Cheeseburger at McDonald's. Why? Because a Double Cheeseburger is $2.xx, while a McDouble is the same thing minus one slice of cheese, and it's 99 cents. If you save your receipt /fill out the online survey, you can get a free McDouble next time.Geez, what area was this in? I can get a double cheeseburger meal for 5 bucks and feed the four of us for under 25.
I'm not sure fast food was created JUST to be fast, but I agree it would be better for us as a society if we all ate less of it.Raise prices. Fast food was created to be fast, not cheap. Honestly it would be better for the health of our nation is it was more expensive to feed our families such unhealthy food.
Agree ... fast food is attractive because of the speed, the cost AND the ease.It's not just the cost of fast food that makes it attractive, but the time (or lack thereof) required. It's so much faster to run to fast food, get your order for your family and eat it. Of course, there will now be people who come on and say "it takes no time to make a burger at home". Get the hamburger, make the patties, cook the patties, put the dressing on the buns, put the patties on the buns, plate it, etc. And you haven't even gotten into fries yet.
That's true. In the years I've been teaching, I've seen a big change in my students' attitudes -- and not for the better. Two big factors: 1) the internet; people will say things online that they wouldn't say to someone's face ... and it becomes a habit. 2) reality TV, where people are awful to one another.One thing that’s been mentioned a bit in this thread that I think is a large contributor to the problem, is how nasty the public has become.
Kiosks and order-ahead apps. And between the lack of workers and rising wages for fast food workers, I think we can expect more "robot cooks".The business model is changing - that’s why you’re seeing more kiosks.
Sounds like my childhood: no AC, small house with five kids, no one had cable TV or even a VCR, one 13" B&W TV in the living room, one pair of tennis shoes per year, three pair of jeans in the fall /cut off for the next summer, occasional extended family vacations. Expectations are MUCH higher today, even for families who aren't middle class.We must be around the same age, because DH and I talk about this frequently. Well, I think he did have A/C in his house. We were lower middle class, and didn't even have a window unit. Grew up in a 1,000 sq ft home with three small bedrooms and two sisters. I didn't get my own bedroom until my older sister went to college. Same with TV....no cable until I was maybe in 7th grade....on and on. We didn't go on regular vacations. We did an overnight in a hotel at a shore town. And then one trip to Disney....we drove, and stayed at my grandparents house in Vero Beach. A middle class lifestyle now just seems way, way different experience.
BUT, I bet you the expectations when you were a child were much higher than when your parents were children. The expectations when they were growing up were much higher than when their parents were growing up, etc, etc, etc.Sounds like my childhood: no AC, small house with five kids, no one had cable TV or even a VCR, one 13" B&W TV in the living room, one pair of tennis shoes per year, three pair of jeans in the fall /cut off for the next summer, occasional extended family vacations. Expectations are MUCH higher today, even for families who aren't middle class.
At $4/lb. plus $1.99 for a package of 8 buns and $4 for 16 slices of Kraft cheese. You can make a quarter pound hamburger for $1.49. How much is a McDonalds Quarter Pounder with Cheese? Online is showing estimated $4.24 for Pennsylvania.