Very few places are picky about it. I found Via Napoli and Le Cellier to be the most difficult. Not exactly with your situation, but asking for a kids menu for my picky 16yo (at the time..2019) at these 2 places were not allowed. We then asked if she could just get some sides instead of an entree and that was not allowed either. Not sure about paying OOP. We used 2 adult credits and had to order her an entree at Le Cellier for her to be able to eat some side and the dessert. Such a waste of food. I dint care at all about the credits, we had plenty. It made no sense. When leaving, I spoke with a manager who basically didnt care. At Via Napoli..no kid, no kids menu. She just wanted Chicken tenders!! Nope.