Bianca and Bernard
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jul 12, 2015
Our rule for the kids was keep enough stuff off the bedroom floor that you can get to the door and the window in the dark in case of emergency, without killing yourself. No food/drinks in them (until they show they are responsible enough to keep the trash thrown away, dishes put in kitchen/etc). Electrical stuff (consoles, etc) need to put up correctly when done with them, and keep the doors closed so I don't have to see the unmade beds.
As far as the rest of the house, the kids had chores. Dishes (whether washing or putting away clean ones), caring for the animals (whether feeding/watering/walking/playing/cleaning up poo), picking up personal stuff in public areas (i.e. dining room or living room) were daily requirements, and if they didn't get done, they didn't get to have fun. Chores came before fun (but after homework). As they got older, cooking meals, making their own breakfast/lunches got added to that mix. Other than that, DH and I handled the rest of the daily cleaning (tossing laundry in, pulling it out; sweeping and spot mopping, wiping down counters in bathroom/kitchen, childcare, cooking). If personal stuff was left in common areas, it might disappear, be read by a parent, or be hung out the window in the cold.....depending on the item (nothing worse than an ice cold stocking cap on a snowy cold morning).
Once a week, bathrooms got scrubbed down (as the kids got older, and got their own bathrooms, those became their responsibility to scrub down), floors got vacuumed/full mopped, and bedding washed (and put back on beds...why fold more than you have to?) once a week. Dusting once a month or so, and that was me, as I was the picky one. DH did the high up dusting when I bugged him about it (ceilings, fans, lights) and all the electronics (cause that's his thing). I tended to do more housecleaning, as I'm the picky one about how things are done; DH did more funtime child care than me (going to zoo, etc).
BTW, 2 girls out of the house, running their own houses, and both knowing how to cook, sew, iron, clean, balance a checkbook, and change a tire. One boy to go.
As far as the rest of the house, the kids had chores. Dishes (whether washing or putting away clean ones), caring for the animals (whether feeding/watering/walking/playing/cleaning up poo), picking up personal stuff in public areas (i.e. dining room or living room) were daily requirements, and if they didn't get done, they didn't get to have fun. Chores came before fun (but after homework). As they got older, cooking meals, making their own breakfast/lunches got added to that mix. Other than that, DH and I handled the rest of the daily cleaning (tossing laundry in, pulling it out; sweeping and spot mopping, wiping down counters in bathroom/kitchen, childcare, cooking). If personal stuff was left in common areas, it might disappear, be read by a parent, or be hung out the window in the cold.....depending on the item (nothing worse than an ice cold stocking cap on a snowy cold morning).
Once a week, bathrooms got scrubbed down (as the kids got older, and got their own bathrooms, those became their responsibility to scrub down), floors got vacuumed/full mopped, and bedding washed (and put back on beds...why fold more than you have to?) once a week. Dusting once a month or so, and that was me, as I was the picky one. DH did the high up dusting when I bugged him about it (ceilings, fans, lights) and all the electronics (cause that's his thing). I tended to do more housecleaning, as I'm the picky one about how things are done; DH did more funtime child care than me (going to zoo, etc).
BTW, 2 girls out of the house, running their own houses, and both knowing how to cook, sew, iron, clean, balance a checkbook, and change a tire. One boy to go.