How can so many people describe the Poly as chill and relaxing, while so many others have the exact opposite takeaway due to the heavy non-guest traffic. I’m not sure “different strokes for different folks” fully explains this divergence.
My guess is city people vs town people. Maybe if I lived in NYC, I wouldnt think of it as loud and busy. I live in a small city, though city nonetheless, 20 miles from Boston, another "small" city compared to other big named cities. Its fairly quiet here at night and I hear birds chirp in the AM. Daytime traffic can get bad. I feel a have a medium tolerance for busy/noise.
That said...I find the Poly very loud and busy. All common areas are filled with guests for dining...either Ohana, Konas and even Captain Cooks QS from people who hop the monorail mid day for a break from the park and a look around the infamous "Poly". CC's is not too busy in the AM or PM, but then comes the Spirit of Aloha dinner show at night were guest checkin is in the lobby (though they are lead to a different area for the show, away from main building) 2 shows nightly, I would guess 150ish guests per show. Trader Sams starts getting busy around 4pm, which includes their outdoor patio basically overlooking the pool area. Ohana dinner starts getting backed up as soon as they open for dinner, so at least 40 - 50 people are at waiting area in upstairs lobby - Tambu lounge waiting for their table. Konas is not super popular, no wait, but there are guests dining, with a view to the upstairs "lobby".
Then...you also get the guests who dine, who plan it perfectly to be at the beach to see the electric light parade at 9pm and the fireworks across the lagoon. Also about 1/2 of the 150ish guests who leave the 1st showing of Spirit of Aloha, shop a bit, then go to the beach area for the fireworks. AND..the guests who had breakfast at the Poly, then went straight to the MK on the monorail coming back at MK closing. As far as I know, the pool situation (MK guests taking a mid day swim because MBs are not checked) is under control since the fence, but Ive seen plenty of people just open the door for anyone carrying a tray of food from CCs into the pool area, feeling bad for them they dont have a spare hand to open the door themselves. Who knows if they are guests or not, but its the busiest pool Ive seen other than SAB at BC/YC. At night though, its quiet.
Inside my room, I have never heard a peep. Rooms are fairly large. The balconies are relaxing and the buildings are quiet, The views from the rooms are tropical....truly beautiful. It is only the common areas that are packed daily.
Ive been to CR and GF plenty during the day and their pools look abandoned, as do their lobbies (though 1900 can get a crowd if they start getting behind at breakfast or dinner. During the day is not a problem)
I typically go May, Sept thru Nov, off peak times, once in March. Everything I wrote is 100% accurate from what I have witnessed. You can decide whether you feel that is relaxing or not.