freckles and boo
<font color=blue>I occasionally lurk on the UK boa
- Joined
- May 5, 2006
What I don't understand about the Amish is if they don't believe in having certain things (automobiles for example) then shouldn't they refrain from even using them? Seems to me it's pretty hypocritical to believe in not owning something yourself, but think nothing of asking to use it from a neighbor.
I know some Amish ask neighbors quite often to take them places in their car. An emergency is one thing, but over and over and over for non-emergencies, to me, is kind of rude.
Without a doubt they pay for their rides.
I think a lot of people find the Amish lifestyle charming and romantic, but I agree with you to a point. I don't think there is anything inherently noble or better about living a life of simplicity when the rules are so inconsistently (dare I say randomly?) followed. On the other hand, we all pick and choose which rules we are going to live by so they really aren't all that different than the rest of us.
I have bigger problems with the strict gender roles, the limited formal education, and the insular nature of some communities. However, they do give their youths an opportunity to explore the world and make an informed decision about whether to join the community or not. I HATE the idea of shunning. In my opinion there is nothing loving or moral about that.