My 3 kids are now n their 20's and we are all in the same room still- I asked if they wanted separate rooms and they didn't because they don't see each other all the time anymore. I was kind of surprised by this- so you never know! But I am springing for a pricey room at BWI to accomplish this, because there was no way I was going to crowd all of us in a standard deluxe 5 person room even if we technically could. The cost was about 20% less than 2 rooms. I am praying for some room-only discounts to show up soon!
My eldest son went there for a conference in grad school- met a wonderful academic over there who ended up being a long-distance advisor. He loved the people and being into computers, games and anime, the culture was familiar to him. The only downside is that he forgot to pack his suits- and there was NO WAY my 6'2' son was going to find anything to fit on short notice. So in all the conference pics he's that underdressed American, haha!
Now, because of his job & his security clearance, he hates overseas travel, it just creates a bit of extra trouble for him. But he still loves Disney so that's why we're going to WDW instead of abroad. We'll set aside lots of time to visit the Japan Pavilion!
No matter how they try, the deluxe resorts at Disney are never going to match up to luxury hotels elsewhere. They're never going to be 5 star. Maybe a weak 4 star. Service is really what differentiates the two levels. It's hard for that big of a hotel to really operate at that level- too much standardization to hold down the costs. The GF is a Disney copy of the Hotel Del Coronado in San Diego and/or the Breakers in Palm Beach, which is why I won't stay at the GF after having been at the Hotel Del and the Breakers. No way will it ever measure up to those truly 5 star resorts. Although it costs about the same. Disney is giving us other perks that those hotels don't have, and so service has to go or the cost would be astronomical. I guess I have made my peace with that.