I so agree with you. It's a pet peeve of mine to to see people saying to go to the national parks instead of Disney and implying that that kind of vacation will be easy with no planning and crowds.
My issue with WDW isn't the planning. We plan just as much for a camping trip as we do a WDW trip, or a Busch Gardens trip, or .... Do I want to get up at 6am to try to get a ride? Not really; but then again, I really don't want to get up at 6am to start a fire so I can cook breakfast and make coffee. So the planning part is just a wash for me.
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My issue is we are getting less, for increased costs; and that darn nickel-and-diming situation that I hate.
For those flying, WDW used Magical Express as a bonus point..."Get to us without extra cost!" Now, you will need to rent a car, use an Uber, or take a non-existant as of now train, at your cost. (Note: I have never used ME, as we live in FL, and drive to WDW.)
For years, we had free FP; it only cost the time to go to the FP kiosks. You could get FP and give them to someone else if you wanted. Now, pay OOP for a small selection of possible FP using G+ and pay more OOP for an even smaller selection of FP choices.
Free parking at the hotels? Not anymore!
Mousekeeping...now, I get that the pandemic screwed some things up; but if I'm staying at a hotel, then I want someone to come in and clean the bathroom and make the beds and vacuum for me, at least every other day. Now, if they actually replace your towels after you request new ones, four days into your stay, without you having to make a trip down to the front desk, you are lucky.
Fewer extended hours for the extra price of staying onsite; and shorter hours.
Ticket prices are up, food prices are up. Crowds are back.
You want more fun? Well, not a problem, if you want to pay out the nose for special parties; and dont' forget the shorter hours on those party days for those not willing to pay that extra cost, so less bang for their buck.
I am truly surprised they haven't started charging for using the internal bus system or the monorails or boats; maybe they haven't quite figured out how to yet. Would it be a daily charge or per use?
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WDW used to be something special. Their customer service was on point; the extra randoms touches were amazing to see, or be part of (like a random free Mickey bar, or being escorted to the front of a ride from all the way in the back). I love our Disney trips, but I hate feeling like a number and not a person, and that is the way Disney makes me feel right now.