fausz4
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Jan 26, 2005
We are leaving in 14 days for our first family trip to WDW!
We invited my parents to go with us - my dad has cancer and it is slowly (fast IMHO) spreading throughout his body...started 8 years ago in prostate, now in the last 2 years it has moved from there to this lower back, shoulders, liver and lungs...he even had a bout with skin cancer on his 'private area'. Now his treatment consists of a chemo tx every 3 weeks (it takes 4 hours each time / 3 bags?). It really is hard on him for the next week. He had it last Thursday (8 days ago)...yesterday he went in for 3 pints of blood...that usually perks him up!!!(His words not mine!)
They are now talking about starting radiation this up coming week on the second shoulder and I am worried (not only about this...) that this will wear him down more for the trip.....Why not wait 3 weeks??? Is this a selfish thought?
This trip is ALL he has been talking about since we started planning in February - and he has had a pretty good summer - until the last chemo tx. He kept telling his Dr that he could do whatever he wanted to him - but he had to feel good in Sept - cause he was going to disney with 'his boys'!
Sorry this is long - but I want this trip - not to be perfect - but memorable for our family.....my mantra has been ---- Making memories with Grandpa - that is what it is about...
We have rented an ECV and I have planned some special things - like a WISHES cruise on the first night and a Fairy Godmailer being sent to them before we go....They will be invited to everything we do and they can choose if they want to go...but HOW CAN I MAKE THIS SPECIAL FOR HIM AND MAKE SURE HE IS COMFORTABLE WHILE THERE???
I totally feel blessed that he is evn able to go with us...
We are driving and staying at OKW in a 2 BR villa.
Thanks for all your feedback....
fausz4
( 's daughter)
We invited my parents to go with us - my dad has cancer and it is slowly (fast IMHO) spreading throughout his body...started 8 years ago in prostate, now in the last 2 years it has moved from there to this lower back, shoulders, liver and lungs...he even had a bout with skin cancer on his 'private area'. Now his treatment consists of a chemo tx every 3 weeks (it takes 4 hours each time / 3 bags?). It really is hard on him for the next week. He had it last Thursday (8 days ago)...yesterday he went in for 3 pints of blood...that usually perks him up!!!(His words not mine!)
They are now talking about starting radiation this up coming week on the second shoulder and I am worried (not only about this...) that this will wear him down more for the trip.....Why not wait 3 weeks??? Is this a selfish thought?
This trip is ALL he has been talking about since we started planning in February - and he has had a pretty good summer - until the last chemo tx. He kept telling his Dr that he could do whatever he wanted to him - but he had to feel good in Sept - cause he was going to disney with 'his boys'!
Sorry this is long - but I want this trip - not to be perfect - but memorable for our family.....my mantra has been ---- Making memories with Grandpa - that is what it is about...
We have rented an ECV and I have planned some special things - like a WISHES cruise on the first night and a Fairy Godmailer being sent to them before we go....They will be invited to everything we do and they can choose if they want to go...but HOW CAN I MAKE THIS SPECIAL FOR HIM AND MAKE SURE HE IS COMFORTABLE WHILE THERE???
I totally feel blessed that he is evn able to go with us...
We are driving and staying at OKW in a 2 BR villa.
Thanks for all your feedback....
fausz4
( 's daughter)