After our most recent trip I agree with others that say don't plan so much. We had one day that we missed an afternoon fp because we just were comfortable relaxing at the hotel. We had a busy few days before, and it was a nice relax. Then we missed our 7d FP because dinner took a bit longer than expected, my nephew had to use the restroom, and we got caught behind the MSEP. We ended up seeing MSEP from a distance. While I was mad that we missed our only FP for a long wait ride it worked out ok. We lucked into a great spot for wishes after realizing we weren't making our FP. We then walked right on jungle cruise, then splash and btmrr with minimal wait. As we were heading around we got an amazing spot for the second MSEP with no one around us. It felt like the characters were just interacting with us (well, they actually were). After that we got onto the mine train in 25 minutes. Walked onto speedway, orbiter, and buzz before leaving.
While I know not planning isn't going to work out like that usually, what was a quite annoying day worked out to be perfect. We relaxed, got an amazing view of wishes and MSEP, and got to ride a few major rides with minimal waiting.
As I say this I'm thinking of our next trip, and planning our mornings and evenings. As easy as it is to say, it's SO hard to do (well for me anyway).
As for attractions I like country bears and philarmagic. Not the most amazing shows, but they have little waits Also get to relax and sit for a little bit which is much needed.