Well mini-golf is better than our usual competitive sport: we are both highly competitive fencers. One spectator once said that, after watching us fence, she thought that she and her husband should take it up: she thought that it would remove any need for marriage guidance. I told her that it is just a legalised form of domestic violence.... ;-) (love him really...).
Still mini-golf is normally a lot less painful (except, although rarely for me of course, occassionally to the pride...)
Boo