JohnTigger'sMom
Earning My Ears
- Joined
- Mar 15, 2000
Hi All,
It's been awhile since I've posted but I still check in and read the posts frequently. I need some advice and what better place to come to than here...right? My Dr. called today and my mammogram came back abnormal. He said something about a spot that looked suspicious so I'm going next Wednesday for a diagnostic mammogram and a sonogram. I really think everything will be fine but my dilemma is whether to tell my husband now or wait until after I find out something more definitive. Normally, I would tell him immediately but he's leaving the country next Thursday for a week. He would be worried sick about this if I tell him now and I really don't won't to put a damper on his trip if it turns out to be nothing. This trip has been planned for months and I would really hate to ruin it for him. Yet, if I do wait and get negative results on Wednesday, what then? So, my question is, tell him now or wait? Please, any and all advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!
Cindy
It's been awhile since I've posted but I still check in and read the posts frequently. I need some advice and what better place to come to than here...right? My Dr. called today and my mammogram came back abnormal. He said something about a spot that looked suspicious so I'm going next Wednesday for a diagnostic mammogram and a sonogram. I really think everything will be fine but my dilemma is whether to tell my husband now or wait until after I find out something more definitive. Normally, I would tell him immediately but he's leaving the country next Thursday for a week. He would be worried sick about this if I tell him now and I really don't won't to put a damper on his trip if it turns out to be nothing. This trip has been planned for months and I would really hate to ruin it for him. Yet, if I do wait and get negative results on Wednesday, what then? So, my question is, tell him now or wait? Please, any and all advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!
Cindy