When I upgrade my current minivan, probably next year, I'm getting another Chrysler. I DO use the stow 'n go. Not every day, but sometimes. We use the back reconfiguration system fairly frequently, and the second-row option less often, but occasionally. There are 6 of us, when we're on vacation, in particular, it comes in handy.
We also have AWD, but only on DH's SUV. We have a beach pass, which means we can park on the beach, and AWD is either required or strongly encouraged for that. Plus, DH's job is such that he has to get to work, no matter the weather. Even though it would be unusual for him to need it, we feel better having it. We don't have AWD on my minivan, since it isn't our beach vehicle or needed in all weather (if schools are closed, I'm home with the kids).