Jennasis
DIS life goes on
- Joined
- Jun 11, 2000
While I agree that community colleges and/or commuting are perfect options for some, could the Dis please drop this thought that going "away" to college is all about partying?
The partying at my dd's high school, as well as most in our general area was WAY more intense than college. Sure, those kids likely did continue at college (one of many reasons dd wanted to stay away from our state schools), and likely partied even harder there.
But it's a lot easier to not party and not feel excluded in college than it is in high school, at least in our area. Don't get me wrong, her first freshman dorm floor was pretty bad with drugs. But figuring that out, dealing with it, and finding her own way was a great life lesson.
I don't mean to pick on you, Jennasis. You were just the most recent one that mentioned this, but it's been a recurrent theme on the commuting to college/not helping your kids posts.
Your experience, and feelings about college life, is yours. Mine is mine.