Insanity reassured.

Ecboyd

Got the Ears, Now I need the nose!
Joined
Mar 22, 2010
Well I have read nearly 40 of these Pre-trip reports and I hope I have the idea down pat. : )
Until recently, I was really beginning to think my Sister was right, that people are not supposed to be happy all the time and think about Disney all the time. It’s just not normal; maybe I should “see” someone. Then I discovered the Disney radio stations on the next playing Disney music, and theme part soundtracks and and and I found YOU! OK, I’m NOT NUTS! My insanity is reassured.

OK, here we go. My cast includes me, DM-40 Beth, I’m a total Disney fanatic. I’m a full time Mom, Wife,:laundy: Grad student :teacher:and Employee. I have been going to Disneyland sense I was in my mom’s tummy. (As I said on another post) My big claim to Disney fame is my dad. He played in his school band on opening day at Disneyland in 1955. :charac2: Clarinet, if anyone is interested. Never was rich enough to have a season pass, but made the trip about once a year or more my whole life. I am an avid pin trader, not so much for the pin s, but more for the conversations and amazing people I have gotten to meet and learn their stories.
My entire bedroom wall is covered with a life time of Disney memories. Only really realized I had enough for a wall when my beloved Imzodi (yes Star trek too) and I bought our (first, last and only) home about 3 years ago. I go for the Villains, Tink :tink: included, my favorite princess is Tiana, at the moment.

My Imzodi, my DH-40 Mike, :smickey:he’s my best friend, my fellow addict and well everything a prince charming who snores should be. I finely let him marry me in 2008 (after 16 years of Unwedded bliss). He loves the classics and is a black and white Mickey and the fab 5 fan. He worships Walt! He is an artist and wonderful dad. (((shruggs)))) he’s my Imzodi, he’s prefect (for me).

Here is Us (if this works)
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Then there is the DD-15, Justice. pluto: She is a complete contradiction in “teen girl” terms. She’s all about sports and activity. She looks dumbfounded at the girls who throw fits and scream and go gaga over the latest and greatest fashion. Give her board shorts and a T and she’s happy. She has good grades and a happy kid. Yes, she even says quote “I have an awesome life”. I do not know why the pod people gave me such a great kid. I certainly never behaved so well, nor got such good grades. They must have switched her at the hospital… : ) I could not love that kid more if she were Walt Disney/ Mickey mouse and Tinker bell all rolled into one! O, shes all About Pluto and the Chip and Dell

My Sweet Girl
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Last to our list of cast members is our DDBFF-15 Kelly. Kelly is our adopted other Daughter (Not that her mom particularly likes the idea). DDBFF is a great athlete, most likely will go to college on a soccer scholarship. She’s a great kid and deserves all the best life can offer. Her family is POOR. I mean really really poor. This trip is not something she could ever have considered. But we could not imagine going without her. This one loves classic Mickey :mickeyjum.

So that’s the cast and crew of the flag ship “WDW or bust” departing Southern CA April 30th 2010.
When the DH and I got married 2 years ago, we spent our Honeymoon, well 4 days of it anyway, at WDW. Having spent the majority of my life at DL – WDW blew my mind. It’s so Freaking HUGE! DL and WDW have a lot in common. D L has some things WDW and vice versa. DL has a huge castle that is it’s a small world, and WDW has the Hall of presidents. The paths at DL and DCA are a bit less wide, and the trees are not as tall. You still have people who use their strollers as battering rams. You still have teenagers that should Really find a parent, or at least learn some manners.

The one thing I will tell you that WDW has that is hands down better than DL is the submersion.
At DL, you can still see reality. You can see the freeway from the top of some of the rides. You can see phone poles and hear the traffic from the train. At DCA you still see the restaurants across the street. You are never fully submerged into the world of Disney, reality can still intrude. At WDW, you can completely submerge yourself in all things DISNEY.
When people ask, that’s my favorite part. The submersion!
Well now you know us (well me mostly) here is our report.

The Plan:
Fly out April 30th then home May 9th.
So that’s 8 solid Park days, (thought that was overkill and I was being nuts again, until reading DISboards, once again thank you for validating my insanity)
We are staying at the Port Orleans French Quarter.
(I looked at them ALL, and still love the simple colors, the soft trees, the New Orleans feel, the rooms and of course the POOL). This is where the DH and I stayed for the Honeymoon! :bride::cool2:
We have park hopper, and the Water parts and more pkg. mostly because of Disney Quest and of course the DDP.

We started planning the trip; I think 3 days after we got back from the honeymoon. It was supposed to be a grand gathering with 28+ people. But as you can see from above they whittled down quickly.

I made the room reservation in April of 2009, made the park reservation on Aug 1 2009, and then waited for any and all discounts. Ended up not too badly, : ). No $500.00 cash card, but the room discount was nearly $700 so I’m not complaining. But MAN would I have loved the Free DDP. Now That would have been a saver.

So anyway, I started buying “supplies” in secret, in July of last year, going to the discount closeout Disney store, hitting the sales at the Disney store in the mall, ordering stuff from E-bay and hitting the dollar store. Did I mention that I really thought I was NUTS for all this!@ I was beginning o think I was obsessive compulsive or something. Did I also mention I’m Cheap, Thrifty, an Penny Pincher? Well I am. Why pay $14 and change for an autograph book that I see sitting at the Dollar store for well, a dollar. Big fat Sharpie markets, 2 for a buck. Disney character shirts and Park shirts for $6 and $10 dollars that are $45 at the park. Yes I’m CHEAP! But if I wasn’t, we would not be going

So I stashed these supplies.

In Nov of 2009, a Wonderful gift was given to my family. We got to have dinner at Club 33. It was AMAZING. More than Amazing. It was …. Wow….. there are no words.

This sorta caused the flood gates to open. I showed my DF what I had collected. …… and they were pleased! OK so… DF is as nuts as DM!

So. Jan was a bad month, just icky. Left us all in just icky moods. Must have been the Rain. When you’re from SUNNY southern CA, you expect a certain number of SUNNY days. We tend to get moody without the Sun.

Soooo I goggled Disney music, and BAMB Live365, and Shout cast, both playing DISNEY movie Music, Disney Theme park music (Like literally the whole track from beginning to end from when you get on a ride to when you exit the ride.) For DL, DCA and WDW. Mood IMPROVED instantly! Went home and showed the DF, and there moods improved instantly. (Again Confirmation DF is Nuts…. Or are they just humoring the nuts DM?)

OK…. That’s enough for not,…. Wow 2 pages…

Next Up: Imzodi, get down the Suit cases AND to Volunteer or not to Volunteer. .

 
Imzodi, can you get down the suit cases….? (Jan 2, 2010)

My beloved DH raises an eyebrow and looks at me.
“I want to air them out, and give the kids a change to paint on them so their luggage does not get missed up with others”..
Again with the eyebrow, but he gets them down anyway.

The following day I give me DD and DDBFF fabric markers and they begin drawing all over the luggage. NO one Will EVER confuse these suit cases for their own, I’m pretty sure I will find a way not to have anyone realize they are in my party either. Teenagers….

So the whole point of this art project is to more easily identify the girls’ luggage at our arrival in Orlando (or so I told everyone, it was actually more just to do some fun Disney related stuff, But I’m not telling). So at this point during the “art” project, my Sweet DD pops off with, “but, mom, I thought you said that Disney was gonna get our luggage from the airport and we would not see it until it was I our room after dinner”. (deer in head lights) “Um Well yes dear, but what if something happens and we need to tell them which suit cases are ours” (Quick witted me, I was please with myself). Note: DH is standing in the kitchen with the darn eyebrow raised again.

:artist: So Luggage properly aired and arted, :jumping1: I start tossing stuff in the cases as I go about my days. I Lanyard here, extra pin backs there, our old Mug from the honeymoon (thank you DisBoards) Zip locks. The usual. Then the DH drops something and has to open the carefully set aside, CLOSED, covered with a towel to avoid cat hair, suit case. (mind you we have 3 purple suit cases, Small carry on, Med and HUGE, the one we are referring to here, would be the huge one) and the wonderful DH see that the case is 2/3 of the way full. And Again with the Eye Brow!

:crazy: Well I MUST explain myself, :crazy: mind you I had not yet discovered the threads where people on DIsBords have packed bag 6 months out, or permanently packed “Disney” bags, so I have literally NO pre prepared defenses. Ever seen what happens to a fish when you pull it out of the water….. :?

Um Um Um well, “Imzodi, I, well” “Look Man, I need to make sure we don’t forget anything, and well If I see it I toss it in and and well, like the glow sticks, I would have forgetting them in the closet”… … … Now this entire time I’m getting the Gimlet eye from him….. so I finish blathering… and he has the Audacity to shrug and say… “Makes sense to me” and walks out of the room….. :confused3 Why are they Logical when you Least expect it. :lovestruc

To volunteer or Not to volunteer?

Feb 1, I decided that it would be a good lesson for the Girls to volunteer. Both of them are very into doing things for the community, working with elderly and kids with learning disabilities. The DD volunteers at the local marathons :cool1: as a water person and such all the time. So I thought this would be a great way to show them that sometimes it actually PAYS to be nice.

So off to the GADGAD site to sign us up for something we could all do together. We already had tickets paid for so what was the point, aside for doing some good for the community of course. That’s when we discovered the Pins and the little hat. We are Avid pin traders, so that was well worth it.

After about 35 e-mails and some timetable mix ups, :dance3: and a few cancellations, we choose to volunteer at a local park that has been hit hard by the storms and needed some cleaning up.

*Cleaning*, now that word brings to mind a little dishwashing, vacuuming, dusting. If you’re working outside, maybe weed pulling, trash pickup, or even some shoveling or hauling and such. Nooooooooo, not for the Fun Family day in the park I PICKED. :hyper2:This was 4 hours of Back Breaking, Uphill, intense, loaded trash can hauling, wheelbarrow rolling, rock dislodging, labor! OMG, can I say OMG? It was exhausting. I’m in pretty good shape, I work out and can run about 3 miles. This KICKED my Butt! We were all sore for 3 days after.

So, we volunteered. Wooo WHoooo. Frankly I’m not sure it made and impression on the Girls all that much. Jaded Teens as they are. : )

Next Up: ADR …. Yes, no, no YES….No, maybe. :rainbow:
 
Ever feel like you are totally Out of some special loop, that You really should have known about like Forever ago...

JUST found the DIS Radio on here. and I thought I was Soooo hip on all there was to know.

HUmmmm LOTS to learn Lots and Lots.
 


I'm having issues because I don't have anything packed for my trip next month, and its nice hearing others going through this!!! We will be there the week before you! Have a great trip and I can't wait to hear more.
 
Just set up your suit case in your bed room on a chair... Trust me soon you'll be tossing stuff in left and right.

Last night, in went teh New Dan Brown book, a small pkg of bandaids and a new pair of flip flops.

I'll make it all nice and pretty later, right now its a gathering place for the Stuff.

: )
 


So, 180 days out? I think I missed that class. Started looking at my reservation in December, O what to eat?

(Like every good control freak I started my Diet on Jan 1, hoping to lose 20 in four months. I really want to wear the bikini I wore on my Honeymoon again, 20lbs in 2 years :( it’s very easy to do when you quit smoking) anyway…

I read every review I could find :surfweb: (Still not finding the DisBoards, though God only knows how) … Checked ever pic and page ion the WDW web site. Overwhelming, information, Overload.

DH and I Loved Narcusies on our first visit, so that was a Must do. (Kids can do POFQ quick serve or walk to Riverside that night). Never made it to Boardwalk on the first trip, places there looked good, O and there’s Dancing!. Ooooo.

OK this one, no that one or, maybe…. Grrrrr too many choices!
By Feb 13th we had picked the following.
T-Rex for night 1,
Chief Mickey for night 3
Narcusies for night 5
Sprit of Aloha show for night 7
Crystal Palace for night 9 (the last night)

And shoot me if we could pick another… (now mind you we are using the Royal we here, like you think the DF was any help at all in picking another dinner location… um… no)

So after hounding the DD I got the Si Fi Drive inn. Wooooo WHoooooo 3 more to go.
SiFi Drive inn night 2 popcorn::

Then I found this web site with a spread sheet compatible file with the park hours, :scratchin ALL of them. Including Downtown Disney and Boardwalk and ESPN : ) so now I have this nifty spread sheet with what parks are open when with their magic hours and what festivals and what shows and what Fireworks and YEA, Control Freak Needs satisfied!

So I take said spread sheet with current dining options to the DF. (can we say HUGE MISTAKE, they obviously do not appreciate the needs of a spread sheet)
DH: are you planning every minute of our day… :confused:
DD: But I wanted go to the water park… :scared1:
DH: that sheet does not look fun…:scared1:
DD: I thought we got to do our own thing…:confused:
Me: No. Yes, NO, YES…. :headache:

They just don’t appreciate a good PLAN, :snooty: all it was was the hours each place was open :furious:

Once I actually got them to listen, things got a lot quieter. I was not trying to Plan the day so much as give us information to be able to plan our attack. : ) (I think they bought it). I mean how else are we supposed to know which parks we can be at the latest and get our dinner reservation closest to so we don’t need to go from one end of the resort to the other just to get dinner? :chat:

So my excel now has all the reservations, all the hours, all the shows, all the special events, the numbers for POFQ and all the information I consider essential for a successful vacation planning.

BUT still 3 Gaping Holes where Dinner reservations should be. :jumping2:

Using my Trusty Excel I make reservation at the Rain Forest Café for night 6, because this is the only late MH for the AK during our stay, logical right. I happy tell the DF and they want to know what Crystal Palace is. (hum, I guees they are not big Pooh fans. Cancel Crystal Palace for 1900 Park Fair.)

So now we have :drinking1
T-Rex for night 1
SiFi Drive inn night 2
Chief Mickey for night 3
Narcusies for night 5
Rain Forest Café night 6
Sprit of Aloha show for night 7
1900Park Fair for night 9

So it’s March 22, and we have now made and canceled about 12 reservations. Things are starting to book up now. I’m starting to Stress just a bit). Looking at reviews here on the now FOUND Disboards, (Thank God for you people). Thanks for the suggestions and the dinning reports.

March 25th locking the DF in a room we finely added the last few nights.

Canceled the Rain Forest Café,
Added
Crystal Palace night 4
Yak and Yeti night 6
Chef de France night 8

party: ALLL DONE, until I change my mind again, WHICH I’m not sure I can as there were Several I could not get reservations for, Biegarten & Le Cellier Stake house are locked up at least for the late booking we wanted.

Headed for the Characters Spot after Easter, :car: gonna see what’s available : ). It’s a Disney discount shop about 10 minutes away from Disneyland, probably do lunch at down town Disneyland.

Next up: I want a New Swimming Suit,,,
 
So now I should be telling you all about my new bathing suit that fits my new Fantastic body, (Which I’m only 4.4 LBs from my goal wooo whooooo) However, I have not gone shopping for my bathing suit yet… and here is the crux of this portion of my PTR!

Remember me telling you about our DDBFF better known as Kelly?
Well this is One amazing girl. She’s smart, she’s got her head on right, she’s a super star in soccer and she is doing well in school AND she volunteers at the middle school with the disabled kids. All in all a Prefect best friend for my DD and a prefect adopted DD for me : ) . That is until you add her mother. : (

DDBFF is not what you would call poor, she’s impoverished. I don’t just mean they don’t have much money; they don’t have much of anything. I really really wish I was just referring to stuff. They have stuff, they have a TV and a car and beds and food enough, not that any of this is top quality or in the best of share, or in large quantities at all. But…

I call her impoverished because she’s got one of them Welfare moms that takes the check and goes to the casino, or the drug dealer’s house or who knows what, and blows the money on the wrong things. Now I don’t have a problem with Welfare, the program can and has helped a lot of people. My mom was a Welfare mom. What I have a problem with is using the money for drugs or alcohol or gambling.

Now I asked to take DDBFF on this trip well over 18 months ago. I took the mom out to lunch, I paid for everything. I gave her all the details, I told her I would pay for everything and that she had nothing to worry about. I waited to tell DDBFF until the mom had OFFICALLY said YES she could go.

So, for the last 18 months the mother has been telling the DDBFF that I’m going to take her to FL and sell her, or kill her or do something horrible to her. Mind you DDBFF does not believe her, but it’s hard to listen too especially when it comes on the heels of “Your stupid”, “Your ugly”, “Your useless”, “you’re a bad person”, yes the mom says this stuff all the time. This is not the cute little American home life here.

(little side note here, DDBFF grandma thinks it’s the coolest thing in the world that we are doing this and the Grandma told the mom she would let DDBFF go.. SO I have an ally in this mess and the grandma is the only thing keeping the family together).

But, the mom has been defeating every step I take to get prepared. Bathing Suit shopping, canceled 4 weekends in a row, I even offered to let the mom go with us, make a girl day out of it. (I know I know, who can tell the mind of a druggie).

And Yes, for those of you who wonder why the DDBFF is still living with the mom if she’s a druggie, well its actually harder to get kids out of a home then you would believe. DDBFF has a total of 7 siblings and 3 of them are younger and still at home too.

I am really beginning to think that the mom thinks I’m trying to take her child from her in a real way : (. I think she believes that DDBFF has some huge potential, like a foot ball player making millions of dollars, at soccer. I think she thinks I’m going to take that from her somehow. The paranoid delusions of a drug deluded mind.

Anyway, the mom knows everything’s paid for and if she says no now she will owe us the money, she has agreed to have the permission slip for med care and such (such being express written permission to take the kid across state lines during school for 9 days) notarized (I is a smart cookie) but I’m still paranoid a bit.

DDBFF is such a great kid, it really sucks that she has a mom like this, but we all learn from what we life through I guess. Man, what would I have given for someone do to something like this for my kid when we were really broke, or heck, for me when I was a Welfare kid.

So, maybe next we will get to hear ho wonderful the bathing suits are : ) or Maybe just how the trip to Disneyland for lunch after a stop at the Disney’s Character Warehouse Outlet Store went. (we were supposed to take DDBFF, but…. We only have 3 weeks left)
 
I'm excited to hear how you're trip will go. Good luck with DDBFF's crazy momma. Hopefully, she'll change her mind.
 
Thanks Ipod.

Yea, she is a Challenge.
Spoke to DDBFF last night, she is so excited she literally could not speak. A Speechless teenager.. go figure : )

The mom asked her to ask when the Notary was coming over so that is PROGRESS!

both DD and DDBFF have big games this weekend so keep your fingers crossed! Great extra thing to celebrate.

So excited! party:
 
Both Girls won their respective sporting events this weekend. DDBFF got "scouted" I'm really hoping she gets a scholarship to a good college. Its really the only way she will get the opportunity.

Mines got military in her plans, so a good college is not so important.

Will update tomorrow on the Crazy Disneyland Run and the DDBFF Crazy Mother : (

But I did get a great bathing suite.
 
So, Bathing Suits, Disney land for dinner, Disney discount store and the TOTALLY INSANE DDBFFs mom!

Sounds like the lead in to the evening news doesn’t it! And my life, well my life is pretty calm and simple now-a-days. Years ago it was insane and the making is a afterschool special, but that’s not today!

This is where e are; bags are 80% packed. Pins, snacks, little mix with water crystal light packs, candy, glow in the dark stuff, 4 pair of flip flops, all the important stuff! Yes even 2 bathing suits.

Both the DD and I got great suits that look nice and did not cost a fortune. Hers was last year style from Target and was less than $20 bucks !~ SCORE~! Mine I nice flattering one piece (so I don’t end up topless in the pool at BB) … Note I did not mention the DDBFF …. (O I managed to purchase a suite without Completely destroying my self-image :cheer2:and emotional well being, Ladies, you know what I mean).

Saturday we drove up to Disney Land, Exactly 98.2 Miles from my front door :drive: to the front gate of Disney Land! : )I am so lucky! Anyway, we drove a bit up the road to visit the Disney discount store. Sorry to say I was very disappointed. There was a LOT of stuff for little kids, so that would have been nice, but mine are 15. So really no luck there. Both the DD and the DH wanted Disney Hoodies, so, yep you guessed it… World of Disney in Down Town Disney. That is a GREAT store : ) I think I could life there are at least wonder around for days.

We had dinner at the Pizzeria there is Down Town Disney. Now let me begin by saying I do not advocate saying that Disney World is BETTER than Disney Land. They are different places with Different goals. Walt had very specific ideas in mind when he dreamed up these amazing places. ….. Given that, I gotta say, The restaurants in WDW seems to be better than the ones at DLR. Mind you I have not tried 100% of them but the ones in DDD at DLR are just not at good as the ones I’ve eaten at in WDW.

:rolleyes:OK So on to the Drama… or how we affectionately say.. the DrAAAAAAma.

My wonderful DDBFF! So we go visit Friday night to take her, her suit case. Mom; no where to be seen. House; totally empty. Great Idea for a teenager : (. So we get mom on the phone and ask if we can take DDBFF out for a bit. (now Grandma has been ALL over Mom to deal with me and get the stuff done for DDBFF) Mom says “o yea, lets meet on Sunday to get the stuff we need signed” (First proactive thing she has done) Great. : ) ok so I will call on Sunday.

We take the DDBFF on a whirl-wind shopping shorts, towel flip flops. Bathing suits will need to wait for the next visit.

I cannot even begin to tell you how Excited DDBFF is. She can’t even talk about it…. She stops being able to breathe and just looks at you…. Her eyes get all big and you can see her imploring you to understand with her eyes. Makes you want to cry right there! Now, you must understand that my DD knows how major of a thing this is for DDBFF. My kid is spoilt rotten, but in a good way, she understands what it is to be broke.

We leave DDBFF at home and RECONFIRM with her mom (via the phone) that DDBFF is home and safe and that we will meet Sunday about 3, we will arrange the where Sunday morning. …… you just know what coming next don’t you.

I started calling the mom 9am Sunday morning, 9:30, 10, 10:30 11. Etc etc etc . I have a notary standing by… 1, 1:30… 2, 3, 4, 5, Notary “off duty”. :( 6, 6:30, 7. 7:30. :furious: 8pm I can the moms boy friends work cell. Ask him where is she, did she get in an accident…… Low and behold she calls me 15 minutes later…. And she says… “She Forgot” :faint:. Have you ever spoken to someone over the phone who is drunk? You can hear it in their voice, and speech patterns. Well the same is true for other mind altering “things” of the illegal variety. I’m telling you she was going about 400 Miles per Hour!:hyper:

I told her I would be at her house With Notary in tow on Friday at 7, then thought better of it and Said Her MOMS house at 7. While I was picking up DDBFF.

This woman is making me NUTS. I really Really wish child services would do Something… but they are so Back logged, that well, unless the kid is in Direct physical harm, they won’t do a thing. : ( California is Broke and can’t pay foster parents apparently.

Gees an page and a half…

So this is the last prep weekend. We have 14 days to go. :hourglass Two weeks. I’m so excited, There is so Much to do still.

O I got small bags from DDD on Saturday and am going to make small “care Packages” for the girls for the hotel, just for fun. Cuz then gifts they will deliver to the rooms WOW they are Expensive!

Next up, AAAaaaaaa I guess we discover if the mom was home for the Notary.

Any suggestions I should put in the letter, aside from crossing state lines during school session with a minor child…??????

:/ Ok I’m a bit nervous.
 
OK i'm feeling like a fool, is anyone actually Reading:yay: my rantings?
 
Thanks from chiming in MyTrio

I will give a long report of all the details ..... It was an AMAZING trip..... I think maybe too amazing!
 

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