Disneyland1084 said:
At Christmas time, I want people to wish me a Merry Christmas.
Then do so! It's a free country! The only restriction I know of for this is that your employer may ask that you use a more generic greeting out of respect for co-workers or others with whom you come in contact during the course of your work.
Disneyland1084 said:
The United States is a predominantly Christian country. If Disneyland has Christmas decorations, why not say Merry Christmas? That's how it used to be. True, other holidays are being celebrated at the same time of year, but you don't see Disneyland putting up Hanukkah decorations. And that's too bad. Every holiday should be acknowledged. Saying "Happy Holidays" is just too impersonal to me. I should of said "annoyed" instead of engraged. It's a better way to put it.
Thank you for saying what you did. I was really wondering at your first post where this was headed, and whether I wanted to respond or not, but I'm glad I did. I would not mind a bit, either, if DL put up Hanukkah decorations or those of another religion.
To me, the operative word in your second sentence is 'predominantly'. As in 'we are not all Christians.' If you lived in a Muslim/Jewish/Hindu country, would you feel compelled to go around wishing everyone a Merry Christmas? Or because you would be in the minority, would you issue a Muslim/Jewish/Hindu greeting? A catch-all "Happy Holidays" greeting? Or no greeting at all? To me, the last of these options would be the most sad and impersonal.
We live in a country where people are free to practice their religion, regardless of the dominant religion of our culture. Though I am not a religious person, I do celebrate Christmas, and if I know for sure that another person celebrates Christmas as well, I wish them a Merry Christmas. If I am unsure or know for certain that a person does
not celebrate Christmas, I wish that person Happy Holidays. I do not wish that person 'Happy' whatever-their-religion's-celebration, because I don't want it to come across as insincere in any way.
In general, I am in favor of the effort to make our society more 'inclusive' of those who are not with the majority, whether it be religion, culture, ethnicity, whatever. I don't hold with the notion that we should continue doing something because "that's the way it's always been." We are moving toward a more global view of the world, and I think this issue is merely a reflection of that.