Just curious about these resort kinds of hotels--is your trip centered around the hotel, or are you doing other things?
Sorry to sound clueless but I have never planned a trip that hasn't been picking a destination first and then finding a hotel. Tagging
@wanderlust7
I was pondering your question today and I think for us:
We would never plan an entire trip just to stay at any particular hotel or resort, no matter how aspirational it may be.
But when we pick a destination, where we're going to stay is always high up the list on my mind.
The hotel or resort and the destination are part of the same experience, and I have a hard time separating the two.
Churning has allowed us to build big enough stashes of points that we can think about incorporating aspirational properties into our trips.
Take for example the Monterey/Carmel/Big Sur area of the California central coast that we're gushing over today. It's close to the Bay Area (about a 2.5 hour drive), and doesn't require too much planning (and the point is for it to be relaxing). Before the kiddo, my wife and I used to make a lot of weekend trips down there to experience the attractions in Monterey, visit the galleries and shops and dine at the many fine restaurants in Carmel-by-the-Sea, visit the wineries and farms in Carmel Valley, hike coastal trails in Big Sur, and just de-stress at some of the many nice and uncrowded beaches. So this is a destination we've been to, and don't mind going back to again and again. We've been back twice since the kiddo came along.
Before churning, we stayed at many of the B&Bs and motels in Carmel-by-the-Sea and Monterey, and I remember always looking for deals on OTAs, Groupon and Living Social. We've stayed in some really crummy places. I was aware of places like the Hyatt Carmel Highlands and the Ventana Inn, but they were just too expensive out-of-pocket to justify for a weekend and therefore aspirational if at all. I booked the Hyatt Carmel Highlands for an upcoming weekend to celebrate my wife's birthday (and hopefully relax a little). The award rate was 30k Hyatt points/night, which I transferred from UR. For comparison, I looked up a decent inn in Carmel-by-the-Sea that we've stayed at several times, and their average nightly rate for the same weekend is $372. For roughly the same cash value in UR, we're staying at a much nicer resort that I could never bring myself to pay for in cash. That's a win. And I'm really looking forward to a weekend of doing all of the things above and coming back to a nice resort to unwind.
I guess by contrast, is the new JW Marriott Maldives that I've posted about. I think 85k Marriott points/night for an overwater bungalow at a brand new resort is a really good deal, and with Marriott's 5th night free the redemption is even sweeter. My wife has staying in an overwater bungalow on her "wander list," and I could've totally obliged, but she's never had any desire to visit the Maldives, and wouldn't have any idea what to do there for five days. So that went nowhere.
I'm a little sad that the Ventana Inn is probably still out of reach for us. No grandparents nearby to babysit. It's right in the heart of Big Sur and a place we've passed by and put on, maybe not our wander list, but definitely our "it'd be nice to stay there" list. (Glamping could be fun! And now I can't stop thinking of Napster founder Sean Parker's $4 million Lord of the Rings-themed outdoor wedding at the Ventana.) I'll just keep telling myself that the Hyatt Carmel Highlands is more closely situated to Monterey and Carmel.
I'll add one last thing. My DD has become quite a hotel snob and remembers the trips we take her on as much for the hotels we stay at as the things we do.