I know Disney's main objective is to make money because in the end it is a Business. I just feel we are being nickeled and dimed for every last cent. Charges for premium parking, extra evening hours, extra morning hours, special viewing areas and so on. We have adapted to the lack of spontaneity. You really have to plan out every minute. Food dictates your trip if you want to eat at sit down restaurants. It's getting harder with families with little ones due to larger crowds. We aren't big Star Wars fans and I think it may be taking over. We Have been to Disney World 15 times since 2006 and 1
Disney cruise. We are huge fans. I know they have to adapt to stay relevant. I remember walking through Mickey and Minnie's house on our first trip and felt like a kid again. It was awesome! Things are a changing and for our family it's not for the best. I guess in the end they will keep testing the ceiling of how high they can go. As they raise prices attendance keeps growing.
I hear what you are saying. We have been AP holders for 5 years and taken 7 (soon to be 8 Disney Cruises since late 2013) And it seems that everytime we turn around, we are seeing "Options" and " extra special" priced events. Ultimately, we won't take advantage of these offers, because they just don't work for us. Honestly, I don't see the value in them in regards to what you get for the money. The extra evening event is going to have to come down quite a bit further and add more perks to make me consider forking over MORE money.
Last September when we got off the Fantasy (6th cruise) my husband and I told each other that we would only take ONE a year from that point on. Well, that was great in theory, but we find that the cruises are the only way for my husband to truly disconnect with no phones, no email, no internet for 7 nights. It is heaven. We too, have our own business and we like to travel in off season ( I homeschool our two teens) so that makes it a bit more reasonable. We would love to take a longer cruise (TA or PC) but that is not a possibility for the next few years. So we will stick to our usual two or three a year until we get bored and move on. There are MANY cruise lines out there that offer good programs that are less expensive, but my husband, kids and I prefer Disney, so we pay and enjoy it fully.
In October when Disney raised the AP rates (again) we almost didn't renew. We went back and forth on it for awhile and finally downgraded to a gold pass with minimal blackout dates. For previous years we had the AP with no blackout dates and bought the extras as we wanted them. (Disneyquest, Water parks etc) That was a hard pill to swallow, but in the long run, we are getting our use out of them and I still enjoy going for a few hours at a time a few times a week.
We meet up with other homeschool families and enjoy walking around, dining, riding attractions (if we want) and then leaving. Obviously a more relaxed feeling about those trips as opposed to the ones I witness with families dashing around the parks in a frenzy trying to cram everything into every second of the day. Just to get their money out of it. You have my sympathy.
Maybe it would be best to take a step back and try other vacations for a year or two and decide if you miss it too much to stay away. I hope that it works out for you.