I'm dying to go away for Christmas one of these years but my youngest (12) isn't ready yet to be away from home for Christmas; he still loves all the traditions and such. The rest of the family would probably go along with it.
What my family doesn't get is how much sheer work goes into all of these traditions. Baking, decorating, shopping, entertaining, cleaning, hosting relatives, parties, cooking. I know most of you understand-- making Christmas special is WORK.
I'd love to go away to someplace snowy and beautiful where I can order my Christmas dinner off a menu rather than it being a meal for which I do the planning, shopping, cooking, setting a "magical" looking table, being a scintillating hostess, and cleaning up afterwards.
I guess I sound kind of bitter and resentful and I don't mean to--I actually love Christmas. But I am looking forward to a somewhat scaled-back version this year, without parties, house guests, and a big family dinner.