I have 3 girls--although one is only 16 mths---now if they saw another girl get picked, they would be in awe and "wish" it was one of them and daydream about it. They wouldnt be green eyed--they understand that not everyone gets the same things in life. We've been sure to teach them that at an early age. However, at the ages of 6 --if one of them was chosen and the other wasnt, it would be a huge disappointment for the one. Im not sure what I would do, because I wouldnt want to deny one that opportunity, but at the same time, I dont want the unchosen one to feel the disappointment and wonder if she wasnt "pretty enough" (yes, 6 yr old girls do think that) or whatever other thoughts come in. My kids would be happy for the other, they have shown that this summer in Disney when one would get something a little extra or whatnot---and im sure the one chosen would be alittle disappointed not to share it w/ the others--actually Im positive on this. So what would I do---well---at their CURRENT ages, if they hadnt heard the offer, I would decline or see about making an "honory princess" (not in the the parade or anything--but just TELL her that and I'll buy the dress and stuff). The reason I would decline--or make every attempt to avoid this is because I would rather both my girls have the dream of someday having that opportunity and give them something exciting to daydream about vs one being picked and the other not and feeling like she will NEVER have that chance because she wasnt chosen the first time. There are just some things in life better to dream about than experience.