Thank you to everyone for your input. Let me also add the following:
1) My s-i-l lives in an apartment complex with other hanicapped and senior citizen people. She is watched to make sure her needs are met. She has a routine that she follows. She does her own laundry. (not well all of the time, but she tries). She can use a microwave on her own, and knows never to use the stove. She knows that she can take the bus and go to the market with others in her building. She doesn't know how to count out her money, but she tries. Like I stated before, she will not participate in any physical activities. She is not grossly handicapped. She just needs some light supervision.
Most importantly, my Mother-in-law suffered a major stroke last September. My s-i-l's life has been rocked majorly. The greatest support that she had is no longer able to look after her. My M-I-L is in a nursing home fighting daily for her life. My husband and I thought that we could give her a vacation of a lifetime and let her see the Magic that all of us have seen when going to WDW or DCL. I assure all of you, she is not a threat to anyone, physically, emotionally or sexually. She has never had a vacation in her 38 years other that a day at an amusement park or 2 days at a beach.
I didn't realize my question would pose such a problem. Perhaps we should just forget about it.
1) My s-i-l lives in an apartment complex with other hanicapped and senior citizen people. She is watched to make sure her needs are met. She has a routine that she follows. She does her own laundry. (not well all of the time, but she tries). She can use a microwave on her own, and knows never to use the stove. She knows that she can take the bus and go to the market with others in her building. She doesn't know how to count out her money, but she tries. Like I stated before, she will not participate in any physical activities. She is not grossly handicapped. She just needs some light supervision.
Most importantly, my Mother-in-law suffered a major stroke last September. My s-i-l's life has been rocked majorly. The greatest support that she had is no longer able to look after her. My M-I-L is in a nursing home fighting daily for her life. My husband and I thought that we could give her a vacation of a lifetime and let her see the Magic that all of us have seen when going to WDW or DCL. I assure all of you, she is not a threat to anyone, physically, emotionally or sexually. She has never had a vacation in her 38 years other that a day at an amusement park or 2 days at a beach.
I didn't realize my question would pose such a problem. Perhaps we should just forget about it.
and he was "talked to" immediately, so take that into consideration too. It would depend on the comfort level for your SIL.
Do not jump down anyone's back. An opion is an opinion. 
I can not help but to agree with the posters whom claim they would be a little uncomfortable. I am a DM with a DS whom happens to have a disability and I still would be uncomfortable. It has nothing to do with the disability, it has to do with the age. I feel there are rules and you can not start making exceptions to the rules. Just as I do not like classrooms that combine multiple grades, I like the way Disney divides the groups up according to age. I actually was turned off by another vacation club that does the open craft time. I do not like mixing the ages of kids when the gap is great. Just as a poster said about their child being the mature 17 YO and wanted to go to the adult functions, I feel everyone feels they have the exception to the rule. I feel you only can do for one what you are willing to do for all. In that case, if we went by maturity, I think they should sit at the door and make eveyone take a quiz to see if they were mature enough to get into the clubs at night.
