Hi guys! Don't know if some of you remember me, I was a teen poster a few years ago. I'm just looking for some advice or personal experiences to help me cope.
I lost my dad on October 5th from lung cancer, he was 50 years old. I had found out in August that my own cancer had relapsed after nearly 5 years, and I started chemo again on October 8th. I'm only 19 and I had to drop out of college and everything, so it's certainly been a difficult time for my family.
This is our first "major" holiday without my dad. Thanksgiving, we were completely surrounded by friends so it was easy to get through. My dad was so into the Christmas spirit, and it's just really strange. I haven't had much time to grieve because we've all been busy with my relapse, but now it's all starting to sink in.
How did you deal with your first important holiday without your mom and/or dad?
I lost my dad on October 5th from lung cancer, he was 50 years old. I had found out in August that my own cancer had relapsed after nearly 5 years, and I started chemo again on October 8th. I'm only 19 and I had to drop out of college and everything, so it's certainly been a difficult time for my family.
This is our first "major" holiday without my dad. Thanksgiving, we were completely surrounded by friends so it was easy to get through. My dad was so into the Christmas spirit, and it's just really strange. I haven't had much time to grieve because we've all been busy with my relapse, but now it's all starting to sink in.
How did you deal with your first important holiday without your mom and/or dad?