I stayed out of this as long as I could. Don't misunderstand me. I feel bad for your experience, and I certainly hope Disney helps you out.
The thing to me is, we KNOW delays happen on a regular basis. The ship, the plane, the car, the weather, family members, illness, job loss, can all cause delays at the last minute. That is why so many people here on this message board always arrive a day early, even though DCL says you can arrive on the same day. A lot of us (myself included) leave a day after too. Just in case. Less hectic and more flexible.
I just think that by EXPECTING to be covered, it encourages people to "risk it" and book flights just before and just after the cruise. This is risky. Sure. Many do it and most are fine, but things do happen and the message we need to send is that it is a risk, and if you are going to take the risk, you need to be prepared for the risk to not pay off. If everyone thought the risk would be bourn by others, certainly more people will take the risk. The risk you take, is your own.
It will be a few more days before DCL responds, but I keep thinking about the following, right from DCL's transportation page (
https://disneycruise.disney.go.com/guest-services/air-ground-transportation/):
- Earliest departure time from Orlando International Airport on Debarkation Day: 11:30 AM
I followed their rules and gave myself an hour to spare. And I purchased their insurance. We were also sailing concierge, so we knew we would make it off the ship quick (and we were using a towncar to get to MCO).
My bottom line: If they give guidance on when a flight should be made, they should be responsible when THEIR error makes that flight time impossible. They could have said 3pm and I would have no argument. Or said nothing at all about when to schedule your return flights. But DCL chose to state 11:30 AM as the earliest safe flight time.
This is about using their bus to get your luggage to the airport. It says that for flights earlier than this DCL can't guarantee that your luggage and you will make it on time, and thus flights before this time can't participate in the program. It does not guarantee the reverse, that after this time you will ALWAYS make it on time. There is no way they would guarantee this. Also, it clearly uses the word "guideline" not the word "guarantee."
If there was a problem with Delta or I just missed my flight on my own, no way would I expect DCL or their insurance to cover my folly. But when DCL's problem causes the ship and their earliest flight guidelines are no longer valid (again, due to their problem), I expect DCL and/or DCL's insurance to work with me.
I try to avoid making analogies, but in this case, I will use yours. If the flight was late, would you expect the airline to pay for your cruise?
Again, I am very sorry that you had this problem and I hope it works out for you. But for others that come after you, I hope the message is clear: Get Trip insurance (preferably from an outside vender), know what it covers and what it doesn't (the fine print is confusing, but the insurance person I talked to on the phone was very clear), and whenever possible, come a day early and leave a day late. Delays DO happen, often, and for many reasons. Best thing is to be ready for it.
All the best!