When we bought our house in the 80s we had a variable rate of 18-21% and had to put 20% down, and inflation was much higher than it is now, so I get tired of young people saying we had it so much better then. We paid our own way through college, worked two jobs and earned (even in real dollars) way less than people nowadays. The difference is definitely the spending, it’s just a fact no matter how you want to spin it. We started out with a tiny house not a 3000 sq ft house like first time homebuyers have to have nowadays. We drove our cars for ten years and didn’t spend hundreds of dollars a month eating out. There is definitely an entitlement attitude among many young people (not all - I’ve raised my kids to work hard for what they have and to be self reliant not spending beyond their means). So many expect to make large salaries at an entry level without putting in the work, my husband sees it every day in HR. It wasn’t a bed of roses when we started out either but we paid our dues and watched our pennies and didn’t expect someone else to pay our way.