I have a dilemma that is posing a moral/ethical dilemma vs common sense. Ethically I know that it is right for me to help someone out that is in need. My common sense says that my boundaries will be violated on more than one occasion as the people involved do not have the same moral/ethics I do.
I find this situation *getting* to me as I know what the right thing is and I can't do it with the pureness of my heart, knowing it doesn't matter what happens after, just what I can do.
This very well could be a bad thing in my life. Could very well spell the end of a lot of things. And thats what comes in to play every time I try to rationalize the decision I need to make. Wanting to protect but knowing that morally I will regret not being helpful to this person. The people are 'kinda' family but not related to me. Over the years I have distanced myself but I do truly feel badly that for once, this problem they have is NOT of their making. But if I give in, they will just come back for more and more and more and more more.
There has to be a middle ground...BUT WHAT THE HECK IS IT! Before I go insane how do you decide between to very opposite choices..neither of which makes me happy and just might make me go insane...lol
Kelly
I find this situation *getting* to me as I know what the right thing is and I can't do it with the pureness of my heart, knowing it doesn't matter what happens after, just what I can do.
This very well could be a bad thing in my life. Could very well spell the end of a lot of things. And thats what comes in to play every time I try to rationalize the decision I need to make. Wanting to protect but knowing that morally I will regret not being helpful to this person. The people are 'kinda' family but not related to me. Over the years I have distanced myself but I do truly feel badly that for once, this problem they have is NOT of their making. But if I give in, they will just come back for more and more and more and more more.
There has to be a middle ground...BUT WHAT THE HECK IS IT! Before I go insane how do you decide between to very opposite choices..neither of which makes me happy and just might make me go insane...lol
Kelly