threecrazykids
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2007
I'm going to break down and admit it. I'm one of these people...kind of. ONLY when it comes to my in-laws though. And my husband feels the EXACT same way about his own family. Basically what it boils down to is this...it's not that we DON'T have the money...it's that we don't WANT to do these "get togethers" with them. So my husband doesn't have the guts to just come out and say it...so he just says we don't have the money. But then they whine and throw a fit and say they will pay for us if that makes us go. Ok FINE, we'll go. But it's plain and simple...we have better things (like Disney) to save our money for...and sitting with my in-laws who do nothing but fight and argue and ignore the kids that they were just "dying to spend time with"...honestly...I won't spend a dollar of my money on time spent with them.
Finally my SIL called out my husband and said the same things you were wishing you'd say...like..."don't give me that crap that you don't have the money because you guys are going to Disney AGAIN". At which he replied "exactly...I want to spend my money on things that my kids will enjoy, not sit around and listen to my entire family argue...not quite getting my money's worth SIS!!"
They've never brought up the money thing since
I know it sounds harsh, but seriously...if you knew my SIL and MIL you'd know why I'm evil about it. But I am NOT like that with anyone else.
Finally my SIL called out my husband and said the same things you were wishing you'd say...like..."don't give me that crap that you don't have the money because you guys are going to Disney AGAIN". At which he replied "exactly...I want to spend my money on things that my kids will enjoy, not sit around and listen to my entire family argue...not quite getting my money's worth SIS!!"
They've never brought up the money thing since
I know it sounds harsh, but seriously...if you knew my SIL and MIL you'd know why I'm evil about it. But I am NOT like that with anyone else.