I rememebr planning our trip to take our little DGD. My daughter was the only one who had been back since that family trip when my kids were young. Oh my gosh, I spent all day every day it seemed planning. How to get everything in, and the order in which to do so. One day DD said, "Mom, you know that what you want to do is impossible, right?" I was not deterred...I could make it happen! Then my DH came home and dropped his bombshell. What was my back up plan? What back up plan? WE're going to Disney!!! He wanted to knwo what I planned JIC our 4 YO DGD did not follow my playbook...what if she was overwhelmed inteh parks, was afraid of characters, and what if she only wnated to swim? He told me I Was placing an enormous responsibility on the shoulders af a little girl, and that his coworker had done the same thing, except he got mad when his little one just wanted the pool. SHe was afraid of the parks and everything in them. OMG! He was right.
I tossed out the massive spreadsheet, revisited that silliness I had of crisscrossing all over the World to maximize a dining plan plan that had nothing to do with our preferences, but was based on prices, and started over. WE bumped up our stay to CL so if we never even left the resort, we were covered, changed our dining plans to restaurants that I knew we would enjoy, and we never looked back. My DGD will be 16 in October and for us, her likes and preferences still matter greatly on a DIsney trip, although she was never afraid or overwhelmed! LOL!