CampbellzSoup
Son. Husband. Father.
- Joined
- Oct 4, 2014
Not fighting. I hope all those involved find peace and happiness
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If I could “like” this multiple times I would. Narcissistic abuse can be very insidious, and no doubt this has been a factor with the entire team even aside from any possible SA. My thoughts are with them all.Exactly what I’ve been trying to find the words to express. There might come a time when you think you know that things aren’t right, but then you look around and see how well supported and admired the person is and it creates self doubt. If you do say anything you are told you are “over reacting”or “being too sensitive” or “reading into things”. Deep down you KNOW you are right, but it becomes hard to recognise the difference between what you actually see and the smokescreen. Narcissistic abusers gather an army of admirers to keep the truth tellers at bay.
I felt the need to say something because I have seen people attacking the team and assuming things they don’t know in more than a few posts. Not sure what the goal is with that, but it definitely doesn’t help the people who are sharing their story.I haven't seen anyone bashing the team, or even stating they knew the extent of what was happening. I think all that's been suggested is that making statements to the effect of "this news is a shock, unforeseen, etc.," is probably not 100% honest given that the information that is out there suggests the cultural environment at the company is/was extremely toxic and inappropriate by accepted professional standards. That's totally fair discussion. The business is to connect with viewers and get them to invest personally in your brand and stories on YT. It's completely appropriate to question what kind of core values you as the viewer are investing your time in.
I will say after a history of people being vaporized from these boards and staff members at the company being axed seemingly overnight, it's pretty wild this discussion is going on here without filter (so far). I appreciate it as a former viewer, I think it's a good step towards finding a path forward.
We’re goodDon’t get sharp with me you said a lot of words that have no meaning I just asked for you to clarify.
We are goodIs that what you were told when you got fired?
He is free to use the open forums THAT HE OWNS to defend himself if he so desires.I guess I can't form an opinion without knowing the stories. And even then...it's someones word against another. I still say people should not assume until facts are know. Pete has not had the opportunity to defend himself. He deserves that, at least.
You like to be a troll on subjects like this? Yea bet you’d never put a face to that profile tough guy.
MmhmmI’m not even trying to fight with you why are you so aggressive? I was genuinely asking I thought maybe you had trauma and I felt sorry for you.
Stop it. Fiasco is notorious for misusing words (not that he has, but give him grace because he’s fiasco) and he’s sweet and he’s done nothing wrong here. Redirect your feelings at the true evil.I’m not even trying to fight with you why are you so aggressive? I was genuinely asking I thought maybe you had trauma and I felt sorry for you.
I completely agree….and people wonder why members of the team don’t make statements. It’s pretty clear that when they do make a statement it’s going to be questioned anyway. Seriously, there’s nothing that they could say to satisfy people. I don’t know any of them but how about “I worked for a narcissist and I had a feeling that he mistreated co workers but I could never really get to the bottom of it. It was a pretty good job. I spent my days hanging out at theme parks and eating dole whip and I couldn’t easily replace the job with another one that I’d enjoy as much. I kinda needed my paycheck and my boss would blackball me if I tried to find another job. I was in a tough spot. Sorry if you don‘t agree with my choices. The end.”Stop it. Fiasco is notorious for misusing words (not that he has, but give him grace because he’s fiasco) and he’s sweet and he’s done nothing wrong here. Redirect your feelings at the true evil.
Unless you have the personal emails of the Dis Team, we do not know if people are bashing them through their personal social media/email accounts in private emails/DMsI haven't seen anyone bashing the team, or even stating they knew the extent of what was happening. I think all that's been suggested is that making statements to the effect of "this news is a shock, unforeseen, etc.," is probably not 100% honest given that the information that is out there suggests the cultural environment at the company is/was extremely toxic and inappropriate by accepted professional standards. That's totally fair discussion. The business is to connect with viewers and get them to invest personally in your brand and stories on YT. It's completely appropriate to question what kind of core values you as the viewer are investing your time in.
I will say after a history of people being vaporized from these boards and staff members at the company being axed seemingly overnight, it's pretty wild this discussion is going on here without filter (so far). I appreciate it as a former viewer, I think it's a good step towards finding a path forward.