When I was a teen, my family moved across the country after my sophomore year. Academically, it was a net positive for me because I moved to a MUCH easier/less competitive school that I was able to maintain a 4.5GPA at, got into my first choice university, etc.
Mentally, and socially, it was devastating. For all of us. My younger sister was going into 8ty grade. My mom suffered a massive depression, and we all basically spiraled out of control. It all came to a head for me sophomore year of college and it changed the trajectory of my entire adult life, in a negative way.
I would advise against it IF kids have a solid friend network of good kids AND have a hard time making friends. I left the group of friends I'd had since first grade and I was very much a shy introvert. I ended up making friends but they were superficial. I am not in contact with any of them anymore.
If the kids are up for moving and the idea excites them, go for it. You have to really know your kids though.
We moved when our own kids were entering 4th and 6th grades and the change was jarring for the older one to the point where he ended up being diagnosed with clinical anxiety and put on medication to control it. He doesn't do well with change. We didn’t have a choice, but since then we HAVE had a choice and we have stayed put because moving again would have been devastating. We have chosen to separate our family over the last 3 years rather than move our kids again. The only moves in our future will be to new homes in the same general area.
Mentally, and socially, it was devastating. For all of us. My younger sister was going into 8ty grade. My mom suffered a massive depression, and we all basically spiraled out of control. It all came to a head for me sophomore year of college and it changed the trajectory of my entire adult life, in a negative way.
I would advise against it IF kids have a solid friend network of good kids AND have a hard time making friends. I left the group of friends I'd had since first grade and I was very much a shy introvert. I ended up making friends but they were superficial. I am not in contact with any of them anymore.
If the kids are up for moving and the idea excites them, go for it. You have to really know your kids though.
We moved when our own kids were entering 4th and 6th grades and the change was jarring for the older one to the point where he ended up being diagnosed with clinical anxiety and put on medication to control it. He doesn't do well with change. We didn’t have a choice, but since then we HAVE had a choice and we have stayed put because moving again would have been devastating. We have chosen to separate our family over the last 3 years rather than move our kids again. The only moves in our future will be to new homes in the same general area.