Jaime4004
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 15, 2010
i think only you know how you really feel. and if your heart wants two, then you should listen to it.
we had two kids and i ALWAYS felt like we were missing someone. always. DH was quite fine with two. i had finally convinced myself to be content with with only having two children when we found out we WERE having a third. i am so thankful for him. HE is truly what was missing in our family.
and i will say that i am completely content now. if someone were to leave a baby on my porch, i wouldn't object. but i truly feel our family is complete.
Agree with all of the above, even the baby on the porch. After we had the first 2 (one boy, one girl), my mother thought we were crazy to have a 3rd. What's more perfect than one of each? I totally felt like we were missing something, and we were! I knew we were done after my 3rd was born, feel totally complete now. And i'm happy to have a big family, DH and I won't be around forever and at least they'll all have each other!