EMom - I totally, 100% get what you're saying. I think some people are reading it and thinking you're having a hard time with it mostly because it's a mission trip to England - and England isn't a location that most would think of for this kind of work.
I'm taking it for the entire big picture. There seems to be some history with this girl and her family. I'm a very liberal and quite generous person as far as helping those in need. This situation just doesn't seem to fit the bill. Is it really just a coincidence that the kid is obsessed with England and she happened to find a mission trip going there? Sorry - but it sounds a little self-serving to me. I read it like someone trying to get others to help fund a trip to England!
It probably didn't hurt that I speak "sarcasm" as a second language!!
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Dear Susie,
I also speak Sarcasm fluently.
You nailed it. The kid is OBSESSED with certain aspects of England....namely One Direction and Union Jacks, not the deep stuff. Her mother has been posting for months about her DD's love of England and dropping hints as to how she wishes she could pay for it a trip there, which given her history translates to, "Can someone fork over a few thousand so I don't have to listen to this kid moan, because it's not as if I am going to get a second job to pay for it?"
The church has mission trips to plenty of places planned. Some that this family could actually afford if they put their minds to it. But they aren't to ENGLAND!!!! If you knew the background, this has NOTHING to do with missionary work. It is about using the ruse of calling it mission work, when it is actually a way to get people to fund a trip to England. She has several kids and every nice trip they have even been on has been funded by someone else. I suspect that will continue to be the case.
Curiously, their fundraising goal is about $1000 over what the church states the cost of the trip actually is. So if the church website says the trip costs $2000, they are saying they need $3000. They do not mention that this is $1000 above the trip cost, but imply the trip costs the full amount. Curious, that.
I will say we have another set of relatives who fundraise about once a year. I always donate to them. The difference? That set of kids works their rear ends off and have since they were 10 years old or so. It's hard to explain without giving details, but one set busts their tails to make money by
working and only asks for sponsorships on a very limited basis. I've rarely met such industrious kids. By 14, they were paying for their own trips to DC and other places, without even parental help. The Facebook set just asks for money and expects others to pay for their trips. To me, there is a world of difference.