I know I want CSR but I have to justify it. In my mind.
You and your husband sound a bit like my wife and I. I understand your OP completely, you expect different behavior in Vic and Anthony's (a fine steakhouse) owned by Landry's than you do in Rain Forest Cafe, also owned by Landry's. You're playing the odds that the experiences will be fairly different. ha
Justifications, those are easy.
1) Brand new resort and rooms. (Hotel snob #1 issue for me.)
2) Deluxe accommodations for Moderate Prices. (Not sure WDW will keep the tower at these prices once the word gets out about the resort.)
3) The new Restaurant is still single dinning credit with a beautiful setting and views.
4) The views from the hotel rooms are some of the best in all of WDW, especially the Water View side of the hotel. (Highest view in a WDW resort from the lounge and restaurant. 16th floor.)
5) It's a hotel setting, rather than a motel setting, so no long outdoor hikes to the lobby, counter service areas or gift shop...
6) It's will have far less children. (Not sure why any one would be bothered with a conventioneer quietly working at the hotel. ha)
7) The nighttime views of the property itself are some of the best in WDW.
8) 3 Bridges Bar and Grill is one of the most relaxing and scenic areas in WDW.
9) You can refill your mugs with coffee at Barcelona Lounge without going to the counter service restaurant. Snack credit breakfast offering at Barcelona lounge as well.
10) It sounds like it's where you really want to stay.
In the end, it's up to you. If the cost is something you can comfortably swing, then do what you want and enjoy it.
If the cost is something you just can't absorb in the long run, then the PoP is a fun place to stay as well and you do have the Skyliners as a mode of transportation.