Of the ones you've listed, I've only stayed at CBR:
Pros: a pool with a slide and hot tub. Table service restaurants (more than one if you count the Riviera resort.) Access to the skyliner
Cons: the 5 sleeper will give you the least amount of privacy. And only 1 bathroom
I haven't stayed at AOA, but I actually find the theming in the rooms kind of stressful. I think the decor of ASM suites looks beautiful (from the photos)-but ASM won't have the skyliner like AOA, if that's important to you.
For my family, the 5 sleeper at CBR would be our pick because we are ok with lack of privacy, and a pool slide/hot tub are important features for us.