I think a lot of this is due to unrealistic expectations on the part of park goers. But I understand if you have not been in a while and you saved up to go and you want it to be special like it was when you went years ago. I personally have dealt with only 1
truly hateful cm over the years and I've been to Dland 100s of times. But my expectations are not very high. I know the cm are paid poorly and its just a job for many of them. Disneyland is a locals park for the park attendees and the CM for the most part. Unfortunately you get what you pay for and I mean what Disney pays the CM. Not the arm and leg you pay to go to the park.
Disney pays CM poorly and despite this most CM still do a great job. A lot of people will say well they should still bust their butt because it's Disney! But they don't feel the same way about Disney as you do. To them it's just a job and a low paying one at that. But I'm sympathetic to the OP. Its a bummer to pay all that money and not feel great about the vacation. I encourage you to write to Disney and share your experience. Maybe one day they will do something about it if enough people complain about it.
The service and customer service industry is BRUTAL and anyone who hasn't worked it in the last 10-15 years could use a reality check of how much daily abuse people take in such. While it's a passion of mine since 1998 , it is NOT easy and I can only imagine the expectations that the average Disney guests brings. I get it - Disney can place unrealistic expectation for guests and CM's alike but at the end of the day everyone does deserve kindness and respect. I go out of my way as much as possible to chat it up with every CM - even just a smile , saying "Thank you" while loading the ride or asking how they are today can change everything. I always remember they are people first above and beyond and may have had to work a double shift at their other job before showing up today. They may not know if rent will be paid or if they will be able to eat the next few days or maybe lost a loved one recently or have had people yell at them all day just for trying to enfoce the rules.
Instead of nitpicking why it's not "magical enough" , why not use that opportunity to try and brighten THEIR day - that's the mentatlityItry to carry even when i have dissapopiting interactions. Then typically within an hour I have someone who makes me forget about it and focus back on the joy being in the parks bring me.
^^^^^^^ ALL OF THIS
lol, all those who find the DL Cm's less than magical you should try Disneyland Paris, and then you wont have isseuse with the DL attitiudes anymore, but thats a different topic.
Theres alot of factors that influence a less than magical atmosphere when comparing WDW to DL.
Theres the entitled attitude of the AP holders
Theres the entitled attitude of guests in general (side eye at the blanket campers holding spaces for the parades)
Theres corporate internal structural changes in Disney which affect the on the ground CM's daily lives
Theres the high percentage of local long time CM's
Theres the low wages and high cost of living in Anaheim
Theres the high percentage of local regular guests
There is a high number of older CM's who work at DL. Theres a high number of CM's at DL who have been there over 10 years.
People in general are resistant to change, just look at the amount here on DIS who have issues when rides are changed or refurbed or shows changed etc.
How many of you have worked for approx 10 years on minimum wage in the service industry? How many of you have been in a job where you get constant abuse from the general public but are still expected by the company to be all happy and smiley??
Alot of times I think people have issues with the less than magical CM's is because they have too high expectations. CM's are just regular people in minimum wage jobs, trying to pay their billls, same as the people in McDonalds.