We have never been to Cape May. However, we did take our 4 year old son to 'Ohana's. Although it was a bit pricey for what he acutally ate, we had a geat time and would do it again. My son is very shy, and has not had much interation with groups of kids. But wanted to participate in the coconut race--meaning my DH had to do it, with my son walking along with him. But, he was excited about the gummy worms at the end. He tried the hula hoop, but gave up the first time he let go and dropped it. Also, our "cousin" was great. She would talk to our son whenever she came around. Then she told him to eat 5 more bites, and she would give him a surprise. She gave him this little "blowgun" device. It was really just a couple of the little umbrellas they put in drinks, and a straw, but he thought it was a big deal.