I thought this might be a great place to ask, so here goes. DH and I are currently trying to conceive and I want to start thinking about what types of expenses we might have during pregnancy and in the first 1-2 years once a baby arrives. Here is our situation:
I currently have great insurance that will cover all of my pregnancy related expenses and the delivery without any OOP costs. It will also cover all child wellness visits and immunizations without OOP costs. I already get prenatal vitamins 100% covered through insurance. I will probably also be able to get a breast pump through insurance too (though not accessories). I have also set aside $500 into my FSA for additional expenses (which could cover breast pump accessories) for 2016. This FSA can be increased in 2017 if necessary.
I work full time and am the primary wage earner for my family, though I am hoping DH will find a full time job soon and then it will be more closely split. I should get at least 6-8 weeks of 100% paid leave, but it might go all the way up to 12 weeks at 100%. Or I might be able to start back to work on a part time basis after the 6-8 weeks. I am doing more research into this with HR to fully understand the University's policy. I then plan to go back to work full time, so child care will be a big consideration. I can start a dependent care FSA to set aside money tax free, which should help. How did you choose child care for a young infant?
My parents will most likely purchase nursery furniture (crib, changing table, dresser, etc.) as a gift, since they have gifted this to all of my cousins for their first child. I anticipate getting some additional items for a baby shower, but I definitely am not counting on such things. What do you think is important to register for or plan to purchase? I am happy to purchase some items second hand like clothes and toys, but probably would like a new car seat and stroller.
Best places to buy maternity clothes, both new or used?
What else do I need to be thinking about? What have you found to be a must have, even if it was a splurge? What could you have done without or regret purchasing? Any advice is really appreciated!