corgi_monster
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- Jun 10, 2007
Rotten people make for excellent people watching
just several more examples of spoiled adult children that were most likely spoiled and over indulged throughout their childhood. I am terrified for our future. Truly. If children are not taught EARLY that their parents are not slot machines that pay off with every whine and tantrum, they will become the horrifying spoiled adults you encountered. If I invited my mother on a trip to Disney you can bet she would be treated as an honored GUEST. She did her work. She paid for our lives and did without so we wouldn't have to when we were little. It is now our turn to give back.
Spoiling your kids is NOT loving them. It's not helping them. It's handicapping them.
We just returned from an amazing trip to WDW!! Each time we are in WDW we notice more and more multigenerational family groups. However, this time some of the adult children were behaving badly!
Let me offer some examples of what we heard from several different groups.
"Mom, when I invited you on the trip I EXPECTED you to pay for this trip and to me that means ALL of this trip. I want the D&B purse and you WILL pay for it." from a 40ish female to her 60ish mother
"I don't care what you budgeted for, you should have planned on paying for ALL of our meals. Not doing so is just plain RUDE." 30ish female with DH and 3DD to an elderly couple while having dinner at Kona.
"I know you are tired and hot, but we want to stay in the park so I guess you are just out of luck. Deal with it." 30ish female to 60ish woman in a wheelchair.
These are just a few of the too numerous to count tantrums that we heard last week. I understand that we are in a difficult ecconomy now... but do adult children really expect their parents to just hand out the cash to them like they are still 8 years old??? IMHO I cannot imagine inviting my parents to vacation with our family AND expect them to pay for all of the trip.
Has anyone else noticed this trend? Has this become an acceptable way for families to take vacations that they could not otherwise afford? Am I way off base here?
Let me know what you think.
You know... this thread just confirms for me that I'm doing the right thing by making DD earn spending money. There are times when it would be easier for me to give in and buy her things that she wants and asks for. Instead, I've told her she has to earn the money by doing extra chores. It's a drag when she whines and pouts about it, but I hope and pray she doesn't end up like some of the adult children mentioned in this thread.
On the plus side, I haven't had to dust in ages. That alone is worth listening to the momentary whining about how I'm not being fair since I won't buy her this or that.
I am currently reading a book called "The Narcissism Epidemic" Living in the Age of Entitlement. It describes exactly what you are saying and how people in our country are growing up and thinking so they are soooo entitled to everything. It's really disturbing! People are unbelievable.....
I am currently reading a book called "The Narcissism Epidemic" Living in the Age of Entitlement. It describes exactly what you are saying and how people in our country are growing up and thinking so they are soooo entitled to everything. It's really disturbing! People are unbelievable.....