33? Why, you were just a baby!
I had mine at 36, 39, and the next one will arrive when I’m 42. While it’s true that I wouldn’t have the same energy I did in my 20s for clubbing into the wee hours of the night and then showing up without sleep for work the next day, fortunately parenting hasn’t required me to have that kind of stamina. And, part of the reason it’s been fairly easy is because I’m in a better financial position now than I was when I was younger (as is pretty typical for many people). I can be a SAHM now and I don’t have to try to juggle kids and a job, so I’m not stretched as thin and I can take a nap in the middle of the day if I had a rough night. That would not have been an option for me in my 20s as there was no way we could’ve afforded to live on one income back then.
That seems to be the general trend with the older moms I know. They either stay at home or they’re established enough in their careers where they have a lot of flexibility, if not outright own the business themselves, and they can all afford to hire help and/or breaks from childcare in the form of mother’s helpers, nannies, daycare, housekeepers, kids’ camps and other organized activities. I don’t imagine most of them would have been able to do that when they were just starting out. There are benefits to having your kids young, for sure, but there are also some benefits to having them when you’re older. Knowing what I know now, I would still chose to wait until I was older to have them.