NotUrsula
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- Apr 19, 2002
I live in an area where magnet schools are generally considered by middle-class residents to be the only decent public school option. We've done OK in the lower grades, but high school for our youngest is looming up as a problem. There are a few good magnet choices for high school, but for various reasons I won't get into, admission to them is fairly unlikely to happen. If so, then the quality of the available public options go way down, like "avg. ACT of 12" way down.
So, private school may be an option, but again, admissions standards apply. We've been down this road before, and the resulting education wasn't worth a fraction of what was poured into it; which was a fortune that this time we really can't afford to spend. Moving to a better district with geographically-assigned schools is another option, but not at all a good one: our current home is paid for, but very small and not worth very much, and we're getting close to retirement age now. Moving would mean taking on a mortgage again, one much larger than the one we paid off.
When we chose to live here we assumed that our kids would simply work hard enough to get over the academic bar into the magnet schools (something that both of us did in our time); we thought that was a given. As it turns out, it didn't happen, no matter how much enrichment we did or how hard we pushed -- our kids are fairly bright, but just don't have the drive to do more than coast along with a C+ average. When I think about going into debt to pour another $60K into a mediocre high school career it makes me feel sick, and I'm just not sure I can do it again.
So, is it really that bad to just accept a not-very-good school situation? (I'm not speaking of dangerous conditions, just crappy academics.) FTR: I don't think the kid would actually score a 12 on the ACT (turns out you can actually manage that with pure guessing!); I think something in the neighborhood of 21 or so would be more likely.
So, private school may be an option, but again, admissions standards apply. We've been down this road before, and the resulting education wasn't worth a fraction of what was poured into it; which was a fortune that this time we really can't afford to spend. Moving to a better district with geographically-assigned schools is another option, but not at all a good one: our current home is paid for, but very small and not worth very much, and we're getting close to retirement age now. Moving would mean taking on a mortgage again, one much larger than the one we paid off.
When we chose to live here we assumed that our kids would simply work hard enough to get over the academic bar into the magnet schools (something that both of us did in our time); we thought that was a given. As it turns out, it didn't happen, no matter how much enrichment we did or how hard we pushed -- our kids are fairly bright, but just don't have the drive to do more than coast along with a C+ average. When I think about going into debt to pour another $60K into a mediocre high school career it makes me feel sick, and I'm just not sure I can do it again.
So, is it really that bad to just accept a not-very-good school situation? (I'm not speaking of dangerous conditions, just crappy academics.) FTR: I don't think the kid would actually score a 12 on the ACT (turns out you can actually manage that with pure guessing!); I think something in the neighborhood of 21 or so would be more likely.
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