diskids2 - I'm sure you had a great time shopping & planning with your DD. I think the "tone" of your OP made it seem like your DD is a little spoiled & you were indulging her. I'm not saying this is the case, just how your OP read to some of us here.
As far as the stress between prom & an AP exam...in our house the stress over an AP exam is much worse than any stress over prom. I have 3 girls & the only prom stress we've ever had is when my oldest was the one in charge of the limo & kids didn't come up with their money on time. Not a big deal though - everyone came through.
I, personally (& this is just me) don't feel the need to spend as much money as you did/have on prom. I have laid down a strict budget with my DD's. They know it & they follow it. We could afford much more than the budget I give them, but I don't feel it's necessary.
What you do with your DD is your business & how you spend your money is your business. Some people agree with what you are doing, other's don't. I'm in the "don't" corner.
There is no reason for anyone to be rude, but on an open forum/discussion board opinions are given & we don't always like the answer.
As far as the stress between prom & an AP exam...in our house the stress over an AP exam is much worse than any stress over prom. I have 3 girls & the only prom stress we've ever had is when my oldest was the one in charge of the limo & kids didn't come up with their money on time. Not a big deal though - everyone came through.
I, personally (& this is just me) don't feel the need to spend as much money as you did/have on prom. I have laid down a strict budget with my DD's. They know it & they follow it. We could afford much more than the budget I give them, but I don't feel it's necessary.
What you do with your DD is your business & how you spend your money is your business. Some people agree with what you are doing, other's don't. I'm in the "don't" corner.
There is no reason for anyone to be rude, but on an open forum/discussion board opinions are given & we don't always like the answer.