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Earning My Ears
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- May 5, 2008
I have a kid with some pretty diverse allergies. He reacts to all food dyes and colors. He just started school this year. I am that mom that requires the school to make accommodations for him. I require the school to not feed him anything I didn't personally pack for him or give them for his classroom snack in advance. I require that they give me advance notice if another parent is bringing in special treats for a party or such so that I may provide an approved alternative (for my son). I require that they monitor my child at meal and snack times that no other child offers him anything that isn't approved. He is really very good at knowing how badly it makes him feel and will ask or tell and adult that he cannot have any food that has dye. However he is still very little and learning and I don't know that he wouldn't take an M&M from another kid.
It does make him very sick, unpleasantness spews from both ends and he has some pretty horrid and noticeable behavioral changes. While his allergist and I don't believe it is likely he will have any anaphlatic reactions he did say it is possible. We are just so lucky and grateful is isn't something that is a deadly allergy to anything!! What do you do in those situations? You do you best.
OP I am sorry that your child is being held in "solitary confinement" even though I don't think I would choose to call it that, I think I would use learning experience or exercise in diversity. I don't know if I missed it, but has your child expressed his feelings on the matter? I know my oldest probably wouldn't care but my middle may be slightly annoyed if it were them. Perhaps the another classroom teacher would be willing to take a few of the students to lunch with her class daily so that they could all rotate through and have the experience of going to the lunch room? Maybe they could have some cool lunch time activities that the other classes don't get like getting to watch a movie during the meal time? That way it's special and not a like a punishment.
It does make him very sick, unpleasantness spews from both ends and he has some pretty horrid and noticeable behavioral changes. While his allergist and I don't believe it is likely he will have any anaphlatic reactions he did say it is possible. We are just so lucky and grateful is isn't something that is a deadly allergy to anything!! What do you do in those situations? You do you best.
OP I am sorry that your child is being held in "solitary confinement" even though I don't think I would choose to call it that, I think I would use learning experience or exercise in diversity. I don't know if I missed it, but has your child expressed his feelings on the matter? I know my oldest probably wouldn't care but my middle may be slightly annoyed if it were them. Perhaps the another classroom teacher would be willing to take a few of the students to lunch with her class daily so that they could all rotate through and have the experience of going to the lunch room? Maybe they could have some cool lunch time activities that the other classes don't get like getting to watch a movie during the meal time? That way it's special and not a like a punishment.