We all made it to Barrecas restaurant in Metairie. It is a family owned place that has been around since my parents were young. We had a private room in the back, but it didnt really matter b/c no one else was there. Haha. They still havent re-opened since the hurricane, and just open for private parties. Sad, I know a year and a half later. Anyway, we had to pre order our food b/c this place does it up RIGHT! Everything they make is fresh, nothing is frozen, so they had to have all orders beforehand. This was difficult since there were 55 people at the rehearsal dinner! Luckily I got it all done about a week before the wedding so I didnt have to worry. Table arrangements were no fun either. There was a head table for me, bobby, and our parents, and then two long table parallel to each other. It took me DAYS to get the seating chart right! So everyone was seated and got drinks and were all chatting and seemed to be having a good time. So I decided to take some pictures
taken of the two tables form my seat at the head table
me and my sis
me and bobby
me and my dad
with grace (fg) i gave her a bag of toys/coloring book etc. to play with and it had a princess tiara in it and she wore it all night hehe
you can kind of see the room/size of our room
some of the crazy groomsmen. you had to take a chip of a certain color depending on which fod you ordered....
It seemed like forever until the Gumbo came. Everyone was so hungry and getting a little antsy! Everyone got gumbo and then either chicken marsala, veil, or stuffed trout. I got the chicken and it was ssooo good! Bobby got trout and said it was yummy. Well
he didnt say the word yummy
but you get the idea. After everyone ate, we got some kind of banana bread with rum sauce, it was awesome! Everyone loved it.
After everyone was pretty much done, my sister gave a toast, as I had done for her at her rehearsal dinner. It was really sweet and she asked after if anyone had anything they wanted to say
(enter crazy grandmother) ***side note: ok, my grandmother really is crazy
she had a kneecap replacement a couple years ago and got hooked on pain meds and sleeping pills
.so she says things
.you know. She embarrassed us at my sisters rehearsal dinner, so how fitting
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As soon as my sister asked if anyone had anything to say, my grandmother yells, REALLY loud. well, Im just gonna say Im glad it is Bobby and Jeff (christys husband) and not Michael and Frank!! everyone was quiet. My jaw dropped and my sister and I looked at each other. I CANT BELIEVE SHE SAID THAT!!!! everyone started whispering, and my sister was trying to gain her composure to divert the attention
..(Michael is a guy I dated for 3 years at the end of high school and in college, and frank is the guy my sister dated for 4 ad ½ years in college, they both dumped us) AH!!!!! I was appalled! My dad was like my STUPID mother! What is wrong with her! it was like when you are watching a movie and someone does something stupid and you are embarrassed for them
.well, that was us. So my sister decided to present us with a special gift her and her husband worked on for us, to change the attention back to us
Christy and Jeff had made us a slideshow set to music of each of us growing up, and then us together, it was so cute and everyone was tearing up and crying. I have a good sister. Even though we grew up fighting haha. So anyway, we soon after ended the dinner, and everyone went to their hotels, except the guys and groomsmen. Bobby and his friends LOVE to sit around and smoke cigars, so, thats what they did for his bachelor party just hung out, talked, and smoked cigars
.weird boys. I HATE cigars and wont let bobby come near me unless he has showered, and brushed his teeth like 5 times. YUCK. I am so allergic, too. So I told bobby goodnight and I loved him, and that I would see him at the alter the next day. My parents and I went back to our room, and a couple of my bridesmaids and my sis and her husband came to our room to hang out. After about 30 min. I said hate to be a party pooper, but I gotta get some sleep, and you are in my bedroom! (we were I the living room, as I was to sleep on the pull out sofa) they laughed and said goodnight. I called bobby to say goodnight, and feel asleep on my pull out bed, for my last night as a single person.
Coming up
the BIG DAY! My stupidity injures me for my wedding