monorailsilver
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 20, 2002
My sister and her 2 dd's are coming to Disney with us in the summer. It is me, dh & my 3 kids.
My sister emails me last night & saying thanks to my niece we can get a card from guest services & not have it wait in line.
My first thought was cool but in a split second, I said no that is cheating the system & the guilt sets in.
My niece has Pallister Killian mosaic syndrome. She is 21 but she sometimes acts like she is 10 or younger. She drives, although it scares me because her attention span isn't always there, she eats regular food, talks, walks, etc... She has similar characteristics as DS but she doesn't have it. She was just much slower in development & goes to special schools.
So I have guilt in the thought that my sister would even think to get the "go to the head of the line" card knowing my niece can handle a line. Heck she will be on her iphone facebooking/texting/instagraming pictures to her friends while in line.
The guilt I have is that there are other people more deserving to get that pass. Yes she is allowed to have it but no I don't want to use it. I actually like standing in lines & will avoid some rides if the lines are way to long but just watching the 'ships' wondering which one I will be on for Peter Pan as they go by, well I enjoy that.
So basically tell me that it is OK to NOT use that pass. I have guilt in knowing that other families need it more then us. I feel like it is line cutting for me if I use it. I thought about telling my sister to use it & my dh & I and our kids will wait in line. I am sure she is going to be annoyed that I won't use it.
Am I weird or what? I guess others would jump at the chance to use that pass but knowing my whole family is capable of standing in a line with out any difficulties just gives me the guilt.
I hope this came out right. I don't mean to offend/upset anyone.
My sister emails me last night & saying thanks to my niece we can get a card from guest services & not have it wait in line.
My first thought was cool but in a split second, I said no that is cheating the system & the guilt sets in.
My niece has Pallister Killian mosaic syndrome. She is 21 but she sometimes acts like she is 10 or younger. She drives, although it scares me because her attention span isn't always there, she eats regular food, talks, walks, etc... She has similar characteristics as DS but she doesn't have it. She was just much slower in development & goes to special schools.
So I have guilt in the thought that my sister would even think to get the "go to the head of the line" card knowing my niece can handle a line. Heck she will be on her iphone facebooking/texting/instagraming pictures to her friends while in line.
The guilt I have is that there are other people more deserving to get that pass. Yes she is allowed to have it but no I don't want to use it. I actually like standing in lines & will avoid some rides if the lines are way to long but just watching the 'ships' wondering which one I will be on for Peter Pan as they go by, well I enjoy that.
So basically tell me that it is OK to NOT use that pass. I have guilt in knowing that other families need it more then us. I feel like it is line cutting for me if I use it. I thought about telling my sister to use it & my dh & I and our kids will wait in line. I am sure she is going to be annoyed that I won't use it.
Am I weird or what? I guess others would jump at the chance to use that pass but knowing my whole family is capable of standing in a line with out any difficulties just gives me the guilt.
I hope this came out right. I don't mean to offend/upset anyone.