sleepydog25 - Thank you for your reply, a little info would help I'm sure!
The kids will be 8 & 10 at time of travel. We wont be renting a car for this trip....Resorts we love are Aulani,
Disneyland Hotel California, Grand Californian & HK Disneyland Resort which I believe is almost a replica of the Grand Floridian. We'd like to have access to places to eat of an evening, we like our buffets and simple eating options too!
My short answer is either VWL or BLT. The other resorts have their unique attractions (such as those pointed out by
joelp), but VWL and BLT appear to have the most amenities that would best suit your family.
VWL - You can boat or bus over to MK, and bus service to other parks is quite good. Your family would have the option of Whispering Canyon Café which serves all-you-care-to-eat platters for breakfast and dinner (I believe lunch is a-la carte), as well having easy access to the Fort Wilderness Trail's End buffet--it's a walk of one mile along a paved trail where you are likely to see various wildlife: deer, rabbits, etc. You can rent bikes and ride to FW, too. VWL itself is perhaps the most serene of resorts at WDW with lots of trees (views from the rooms consist mostly of trees
) and has a very majestic feel thanks to its unique theming and architecture. You can catch a boat not only to MK, but there are boats that will take you over to the Contemporary which has its own array of eateries.
BLT - Located at the Contemporary, you have all the eating options there such as Chef Mickey's and The Wave, plus as suggested above, you can boat over to VWL and eat there or continue to FW for Trail's End. Certainly, being at BLT means a short walk to MK, and you would be able to take the monorail to EPCOT or a bus to other parks. Being on the monorail further means access to restaurants at the resorts along the monorail's route such as 1900 Park Fare at the Grand Floridian or Ohana's at the Polynesian. The theming at BLT is more modern than grandiose, but many prefer that sleeker look than the woodsy feel of VWL.
The other resorts do offer nice amenities, but these two seem to be the best fit for your family. Perhaps others will provide differing opinions. Since I'm guessing you will only be able to make a reservation at the 7-month point, and depending on the time of year you plan to travel, you might not have the option of either of these two resorts. In that case, I'm sure you'll find whichever resort is available to be a wonderful place to stay, as well. Have fun deciding and enjoy your trip!