Dopey Sharon
Proud Mimi of our first grandchild, Lily
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2000
My BIL, who has been divorced for about three years and has four kids, who will all be living with him (at his mother's house) in the next month, just announced that he is getting married to the woman, who has three kids, and lives across the street (at her father's house), that he just started dating THREE WEEKS ago!!! My question is...should this wedding happen...what is the proper wedding gift? I always give the couple money, which is what we did the first time he got married. Do we give him the same amount we would give anyone else getting married...Cut it in half...Buy a small gift...Or just give them a card and wish them luck...they are going to need it! BTW, he is 42, don't know how old she is, I haven't met her yet but I think she's around the same age. They will continue to live with her father, directly across the street from my MIL, who is the most controlling person I know.