I certainly can not pull into something that looks like this (a general picture I just picked off the web just to show big gravel) like a tractor can....
Also on the diesel pump thing... I don't drive a diesel vehicle. I pull up to the open pump available to fill my car. I do not nor have I ever thought that there is only 1 pump with diesel. I don't pull up to the station and inspect all the pumps to see which one has a diesel pump because most assume all the pumps have diesel because they don't ever need to use it.
And now for this...
All the lame excuses in the world simply do not justify the fact that a cyclist actually has by rights of the Constitution of the US and the freedom of movement has more right to the road than motor vehicle drivers because driving a motor vehicle is a privilege. We have equal rights to the freedom of travel, it's just that you chose the method that is a privilege.
Yes, cyclists who ride side by side is a problem. I don't think that is allowed by law in PA. Riding in an area with any kind of congestion we ride single file, but out on the country roads as I pay attention to my mirror for cars coming up behind me, we do ride side by side and when a car comes, we move single file. You can even hear me holler out, "Skinny up! Car back!" We announce vehicular hazards and do what we need to do to impede said vehicles as little as possible.
Another reason for riding in the lane for me is western PA. There is no such thing as flat where I am. It is up and down and up and down constant. You can not on a bicycle allow the ability for a car to pass you on a crest of a hill because they will and when an oncoming car appears, they are going to swerve back and take you out vs head on into another car every time. As I reach the crests of the hill, I am riding in the left tire track and also can see over the crest way before a driver can and will signal to a car behind me if it is clear or not and move over. If not clear, I will stay out there until I see the traffic is cleared, or I've crested and know the following vehicle can now see.
In town I do ride directly in the road. Speed limits are 25 mph. I can easily do 25 mph in my town no problem. If I wasn't, I would ride on the side of the road (as far right as practical.) I had a situation riding through town on a 2 lane one way road the car behind me just had to pass me. He pulled along side of me but when he realized that downhill I was doing 45 mph on a 25 mph street, he backed off and pulled behind me. Many people in cars think that a bicycle in front of them is impeding them no matter what the situation is. At 45 mph on a 25 mph street, I am definitely not impeding traffic.
The reason you take the lane at lights is because once the light turn green and the 1st car accelerates faster than you, as you are crossing the intersection, the 2nd car is making a right turn, can't notice you because you are on the side blending into the background, and get run over by the car turning right. Especially if there is a right turn lane, I will move out behind the cars in the lane and properly wait for the light to turn green so that I and the rest of traffic can go. I go through the intersection and back over to the right to allow the rest of traffic to pass me.