Figment_Fan
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Feb 5, 2008
We have been fortunate enough to have taken some of our children's friends with us on 4 Disney trips. It was different friends with each trip. Chosen not because they couldn't afford to go, but because my kids wanted to share the experience with each of these particular friends. We belong to DVC so the rooms did not cost us anything more. We have driven and flown depending on which was cheaper. The cost didn't increase too much with an added child or two.
I must say, I received more from the experience than the "value" to the friend's parents. The ability to see again through new eyes. The expressions as they tried something new - experience, food, or anything different. One of the boys we took was autistic, so no dark rides. We were in Mouse Gear and he started to get agitated. The clock on the wall, which we never paid any attention to, was ticking in a way that made his skin crawl. Who knew? We exited fast.
We got to our room door and one kid stopped in his tracks at the foot of our Treehouse for the week and looked up puzzled. He stated, it's a real treehouse? We said yes, didn't you pay attention to the stuff we've been e-mailing you. What did you think it would be? He said - a hotel called the Treehouses.
I can never repay the parents that trusted us with their children for those wonderful days. So, if you look at it from that perspective, you are giving the parents taking your child a gift as well as their kids. And, it is a priceless gift. These were some of the best memories that my family has. There is always a some place when we are back at the world where - hey, remember when so and so was here with us and . . . happened? Those memories, along with photographic evidence of some of the out of the ordinary things that happened bring ongoing conversation of memories and joy.
Good luck with your decision to send or not. You know your child and situation better than anyone else.
I must say, I received more from the experience than the "value" to the friend's parents. The ability to see again through new eyes. The expressions as they tried something new - experience, food, or anything different. One of the boys we took was autistic, so no dark rides. We were in Mouse Gear and he started to get agitated. The clock on the wall, which we never paid any attention to, was ticking in a way that made his skin crawl. Who knew? We exited fast.
We got to our room door and one kid stopped in his tracks at the foot of our Treehouse for the week and looked up puzzled. He stated, it's a real treehouse? We said yes, didn't you pay attention to the stuff we've been e-mailing you. What did you think it would be? He said - a hotel called the Treehouses.
I can never repay the parents that trusted us with their children for those wonderful days. So, if you look at it from that perspective, you are giving the parents taking your child a gift as well as their kids. And, it is a priceless gift. These were some of the best memories that my family has. There is always a some place when we are back at the world where - hey, remember when so and so was here with us and . . . happened? Those memories, along with photographic evidence of some of the out of the ordinary things that happened bring ongoing conversation of memories and joy.
Good luck with your decision to send or not. You know your child and situation better than anyone else.