well we did it..we were able to get enough dough together to book our trip..we are staying at the gf for six nights and seven days!...this is the second time around for both of us and we are so looking forward to our trip..we both have 2 kids each and do not have much time for eachother...we have planned some things and have left the other time open to just relax and do whatever we want...we have a wedding dinner planned at narcosses our first night......we have dinner at the california grill....we are doing the poly lua..and the circus in dtd w/dinner...thats enough planning!!!!....i will tell you all about it when we get back in a couple of weeks..........ps...we are also doing the couples spa package...it is pricey but we thought what the heck!!..go for it!