Importantly (imho), the only resorts that have Community Halls are OKW, SSR, BWV, BLT, AKV-Kidani & RIV. CHs may offer video games, pinball, ping-pong, pool, crafts, DVD rental, etc (most options currently available, despite covid). We find that they are great for some quiet time away from the parks, & usually go at least every 2-3 days. While you can go to CHs from another resort, it's usually quite a walk.
With your considerations, I would probably chose SSR (beautiful, serene, very relaxing, & walk to Springs), followed by AKV (as stunning as the resort is, with some of the best restaurants on-site, we find the transportation there to be some of the worst). We found OKW pretty, but uninteresting (1 bdrms & up are large, but there was little to do without always taking a bus). We also don't care for the fact that the cars abut the villas so closely.
Oddly enough, BWV is a quiet resort (with our favorite quiet oasis on property, the BW Inn pool
- it is not unusual to be the only people there). The resort has very quiet & elegant interiors with access to activities & excitement within easy walking distance. The biggest drawback would be the shorter contract length.