Snowflakey
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Aug 28, 2005
I don't have all the fact yet but I want to be as prepared as I can. Long story short - my FIL passed away 19 years ago. MIL has Alzheimer's and just recently DH and I have been brought in to take over her finances.
I noticed she doesn't get a monthly payment from where my FIL worked for 26 years - he was a fireman.
I called the City office to inquire and I'm on week 3 now of them not getting back to me. They did say last week they will let me know this week and if I am "free" to come in to talk. This leads me to believe they either know or think there was a pension and/or life policy.
My FIL died at the age of 64 but he was retired.
My question is this - it's been 19 years since he passed. I know for a fact my MIL had no idea what, if any, policies he had. It's just how it was back then. If there is a pension policy is there anything I can do about the 19 years of missed time being able to draw from it? It breaks my heart to know if there is a policy my MIL can't enjoy it in the condition she is now.
This fire department knew the moment he passed away. They were a part of the funeral and we had a "final ride" where his casket was on top of the fire truck that stopped in front of the fire house for a final alarm - so emotional that was
Thanks in advance for any guidance.
I noticed she doesn't get a monthly payment from where my FIL worked for 26 years - he was a fireman.
I called the City office to inquire and I'm on week 3 now of them not getting back to me. They did say last week they will let me know this week and if I am "free" to come in to talk. This leads me to believe they either know or think there was a pension and/or life policy.
My FIL died at the age of 64 but he was retired.
My question is this - it's been 19 years since he passed. I know for a fact my MIL had no idea what, if any, policies he had. It's just how it was back then. If there is a pension policy is there anything I can do about the 19 years of missed time being able to draw from it? It breaks my heart to know if there is a policy my MIL can't enjoy it in the condition she is now.
This fire department knew the moment he passed away. They were a part of the funeral and we had a "final ride" where his casket was on top of the fire truck that stopped in front of the fire house for a final alarm - so emotional that was
Thanks in advance for any guidance.