J'aime Paris
Living happily ever after
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- Mar 7, 2008
Put one foot in front of the other. You are remarkable, Rodeo!
Do you sew or know anyone who does? How about taking different clothing of your husbands and making a quilt for each of your kids? I couldn't think of a better way to wrap myself in love. Hugs to you.
Exactly so. When my mother died, and my sister (her caretaker) wanted to "get everything taken care of" the best advice she got was from the lawyer. He told her "You don't have to clear everything up immediately. Or in a month, or, even in a year". It took a whole lot of pressure off of her.I think you're being too hard on yourself and putting too much pressure on yourself to get things done. You need to give yourself some time to get used to your new "normal." Don't think you can do it all in a day, a week or even a month. It's going to take lots of time. Pick one room and start there. Give it whatever time you feel you can handle that day. As far as the stuff that's still packed, I would let your children go through what is theirs. When we moved I was surprised at what my children wanted to keep and what they were willing to donate. I would have done it completely differently than they did.